What does "with respect and fear" teach us about our attitude towards authority? Setting the Context Ephesians 6:5: “Slaves, obey your earthly masters with respect and fear and with sincerity of heart, just as you would obey Christ.” Paul addresses first-century bond-servants, yet the principle reaches every Christian relationship to human authority—employers, teachers, church leaders, government, parents. Defining “Respect and Fear” • Respect – an attitude of honor, deference, and courtesy toward those God places over us. • Fear – not panic or dread, but reverent awe that recognizes God stands behind delegated authority. • Together – a posture that treats earthly authority seriously because the ultimate Authority is watching. Why God Commands This Attitude • Authority is God-ordained (Romans 13:1). To dishonor legitimate authority is ultimately to dishonor God. • A respectful heart witnesses to the gospel. Outsiders “may see your good deeds and glorify God” (1 Peter 2:12). • It protects us from rebellion—a sin likened to witchcraft (1 Samuel 15:23). • It cultivates humility, a virtue God rewards (James 4:6). Related Scriptures That Reinforce the Lesson • Colossians 3:22 – “Slaves, obey your earthly masters…with sincerity of heart and fear of the Lord.” • 1 Peter 2:18 – “Servants, submit yourselves to your masters with all respect, not only to those who are good and gentle, but even to those who are unreasonable.” • Hebrews 13:17 – “Obey your leaders and submit to them, for they keep watch over your souls.” • Proverbs 24:21 – “My son, fear the LORD and the king, and do not associate with the rebellious.” • Titus 2:9-10 – Servants are to “show absolute fidelity, so that they will adorn the doctrine of God our Savior in every way.” Practical Expressions Today • At work: punctuality, honest labor, avoiding gossip about supervisors. • In church: welcoming correction, supporting leaders with prayer and cooperation. • In civil life: paying taxes, honoring laws, speaking courteously of officials even when disagreeing. • In the home: children valuing parental guidance, spouses honoring God-given roles. • Online: resisting disrespectful memes or comments about authority figures. Heart Checks: Guarding Against Two Extremes • Passive compliance without sincerity – outward obedience but inner resentment. Scripture calls for “sincerity of heart.” • Fear of man – trembling before people instead of reserving ultimate reverence for God alone (Matthew 10:28). Fruit of Walking in Respect and Fear • Clear conscience before God and men (Acts 24:16). • Favor with those in authority (Proverbs 3:3-4). • A peaceful, orderly community (1 Timothy 2:1-2). • Eternal reward from Christ, “because you know that the Lord will reward each one for whatever good he does” (Ephesians 6:8). |
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