How does this verse show God's care?
How does this verse reflect God's care for the vulnerable in society?

Setting the Scene: Exodus 21:10

“If he takes another wife, he must not diminish the food, clothing, or marital rights of his first wife.”


Why This Law Matters

• The verse sits in a passage regulating how an Israelite man could receive a female servant as his wife (Exodus 21:7–11).

• In that culture, women—especially servant-wives—were economically and socially vulnerable.

• God steps in with a binding command: even if the husband adds another wife, the first woman’s needs and dignity remain non-negotiable.


Three Built-in Protections

1. Food – Her basic sustenance must stay constant. No rationing, no neglect.

2. Clothing – Ongoing provision for daily and seasonal garments, a symbol of security and honor (cf. Proverbs 31:21).

3. Marital rights – Continued intimacy and emotional commitment, affirming her full status as wife, not property.


Echoes Through the Rest of Scripture

Exodus 22:22-24 – “You shall not mistreat any widow or fatherless child…” God vows to hear their cry.

Deuteronomy 10:18 – He “executes justice for the orphan and the widow, and loves the foreigner, giving him food and clothing.”

Psalm 146:9 – “The LORD watches over the stranger; He sustains the fatherless and widow.”

Malachi 3:5 – Judgment promised against those who oppress wage-earners, widows, or orphans.

James 1:27 – Pure religion is “to care for orphans and widows in their distress.”

God’s concern in Exodus 21:10 is not an isolated rule; it harmonizes with the wider biblical melody of safeguarding the powerless.


What This Teaches Us About God’s Character

• He is protective: He writes justice into law where society might overlook it.

• He is personal: He cares about everyday details—meals, clothes, affection.

• He is impartial: Social standing never diminishes a person’s worth before Him.


Living It Out Today

• Honor marital vows by providing for the physical, emotional, and spiritual needs of one’s spouse.

• Champion protections for the marginalized: single parents, refugees, trafficking survivors, the elderly.

• Support policies and ministries that ensure basic necessities—food, shelter, medical care—are not withheld from those with little voice.

• Model God’s heart in personal relationships: treat every person as image-bearer, never as expendable or replaceable.

In what ways can we apply Exodus 21:10 to modern family dynamics?
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