In what ways can we align our speech with the teachings of Jesus? The heart-to-mouth connection Matthew 15:18: “But the things that come out of the mouth come from the heart, and these things defile a man.” Why words matter • They expose what we treasure (Luke 6:45). • They possess life-and-death power (Proverbs 18:21). • They will be judged (Matthew 12:36). Speech that mirrors Jesus • Truthful (Ephesians 4:25). • Gracious and “seasoned with salt” (Colossians 4:6). • Edifying, not tearing down (Ephesians 4:29). • Pure—free of obscenity, gossip, slander (Ephesians 5:4; James 4:11). • Gentle, diffusing anger (Proverbs 15:1). • Consistent—blessing God and people alike (James 3:9-10). Guarding the source • Watch the heart diligently (Proverbs 4:23). • Fill it with what is true, pure, lovely (Philippians 4:8). • Store up Scripture (Psalm 119:11). • Yield to the Spirit for self-control (Galatians 5:22-23). Daily practices that align the tongue • Start each morning reading a passage aloud—let God’s words tune yours. • Pause before replying; be “quick to listen, slow to speak” (James 1:19). • Trade complaints for thanksgiving. • Memorize verses on speech (Psalm 19:14; Ephesians 4:29). • Apologize swiftly when words wound. • Seek conversations that model godly language. Ongoing motivation 1 Peter 3:10: “Whoever would love life and see good days must keep his tongue from evil and his lips from deceitful speech.” When the heart stays tethered to Christ, the mouth becomes a channel of His grace, fulfilling Jesus’ teaching in Matthew 15:18. |
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