How can we avoid being judgmental like the disciples in Mark 14:4? Setting the Scene Mark 14:4: “But some of those present were saying indignantly to one another, ‘Why this waste of perfume?’” What Went Wrong in Mark 14:4 • The disciples rushed to evaluate Mary’s action without seeking Jesus’ perspective. • They measured her devotion by financial logic instead of spiritual value. • Their words came from indignation rather than love, revealing pride and misplaced priorities. Why Judgmentalism Sneaks In Today • Familiarity with religious routines can dull our sense of wonder, making us quick to critique fresh expressions of devotion. • Pride whispers that we see motives clearly, though only God does (1 Samuel 16:7). • Comparing ourselves to others feels easier than examining our own hearts (Luke 18:11-14). Practical Steps to Guard Our Hearts • Pause and Pray – Before speaking, ask the Lord for insight: “Search me, O God” (Psalm 139:23-24). • Assume the Best – Love “believes all things” (1 Corinthians 13:7). Choose charity over suspicion. • Remember Your Own Need for Grace – “All have sinned” (Romans 3:23); awareness of personal mercy received softens hard judgments. • Speak to Build Up – “Let no unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only what is helpful for building up” (Ephesians 4:29). • Keep Eternal Priorities in View – Jesus valued Mary’s act because it honored Him before the cross (Mark 14:6-9). Align your values with His. Anchoring Our Minds in Scripture • Matthew 7:1-5 — Remove the plank from your own eye first. • Romans 14:10-13 — Each of us will give an account to God; therefore, do not judge your brother. • James 4:11-12 — There is one Lawgiver and Judge. • Galatians 6:1 — Restore anyone caught in sin “in a spirit of gentleness,” not condemnation. Living Out Grace Instead of Judgment • Celebrate sincere devotion wherever you see it. • Offer correction only after prayer, with humility and Scripture in hand. • Keep Christ’s sacrificial love central; the closer we stand to the cross, the less room there is for self-righteousness. |
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