In what ways can we guard against stubbornness in our spiritual walk? Stubbornness Exposed “Even after this, Jeroboam did not turn from his evil way, but again he appointed priests for the high places from among all the people. Whoever desired it became a priest of the high places.” (1 Kings 13:33) • Jeroboam’s refusal to “turn” after a direct warning shows that spiritual stubbornness is a conscious choice. • He ignores God’s clear word, clings to his own agenda, and drags others with him. Recognizing the Warning Signs • Dismissing conviction (Hebrews 3:15: “Today, if you hear His voice, do not harden your hearts”). • Normalizing compromise (Proverbs 14:12). • Surrounding ourselves with people who affirm disobedience, as Jeroboam did. Developing a Soft Heart • Daily surrender: “Search me, O God…lead me in the way everlasting.” (Psalm 139:23-24). • Quick repentance: “If we confess our sins, He is faithful and just to forgive.” (1 John 1:9). • Remembering God’s kindness: “Or do you disregard the riches of His kindness…not realizing that God’s kindness leads you to repentance?” (Romans 2:4). Practical Guardrails for Daily Life 1. Schedule unhurried time in the Word; let Scripture speak before opinions do (Psalm 119:11). 2. Keep a short sin ledger—deal with issues the same day (Ephesians 4:26-27). 3. Invite correction: trusted believers who can say, “You’re drifting” (Proverbs 27:6). 4. Cultivate a responsive prayer life: pause and ask, “Lord, is there anything You’re saying that I’m ignoring?” 5. Memorize key verses on humility (James 4:6-10). Accountability within the Body • Hebrews 10:24-25 urges meeting together “so that we may spur one another on toward love and good deeds.” • Small groups, mentoring, and family worship times create settings where stubbornness is exposed before it calcifies. • Share victories and failures honestly; secrecy feeds defiance. Staying Anchored to Truth • Stubbornness thrives on self-made religion (Jeroboam’s high places). • Measure every teaching, tradition, or desire against the whole counsel of God (Acts 17:11). • Pray for the promised “new heart” and “new spirit” (Ezekiel 36:26) and walk in step with the Spirit (Galatians 5:16-25), who softens us continually. |