How to dine with outcasts like Jesus?
How can we emulate Jesus dining with "tax collectors and sinners" in our lives?

The Scene in Matthew 9:10

“While Jesus was reclining at table in the house, many tax collectors and sinners came to eat with Him and His disciples.”


What Jesus Modeled at the Table

• Intentional proximity: He chose to be where people far from God felt welcome.

• Confident holiness: Purity was not compromised; His presence brought light into darkness (John 1:5).

• Transforming grace: Relationship preceded repentance, yet repentance always followed (Luke 5:31-32).


Why This Matters Today

• “The Son of Man came to seek and to save the lost.” (Luke 19:10)

• The Great Commission sends us out just as Christ was sent (Matthew 28:19-20).

• Our homes, cafés, and break rooms can become mission fields where the gospel meets real life.


Practical Ways to Pull Up Another Chair

• Share ordinary meals: chili on a Tuesday night communicates welcome as powerfully as a banquet.

• Invite across lines: coworkers, neighbors, classmates—especially those overlooked or avoided.

• Listen first: genuine curiosity opens hearts (James 1:19).

• Tell your story: weave the gospel naturally into conversation (1 Peter 3:15).

• Celebrate milestones: birthdays, promotions, recovered sobriety—Christ rejoices with them through you.

• Follow up: a text, an offer to pray during the week, or another meal keeps doors open.


Guardrails for Faithful Witness

• Keep biblical convictions clear; love never excuses sin (Romans 12:9).

• Avoid environments that draw you toward temptation (1 Corinthians 10:12-13).

• Engage alongside mature believers when possible—Jesus sent disciples two by two (Mark 6:7).

• Saturate gatherings in Scripture before and after; the Word guards and guides (Psalm 119:105).


Promises to Remember

• “I am with you always, to the very end of the age.” (Matthew 28:20)

• “So is My word that goes out from My mouth: it will not return to Me empty.” (Isaiah 55:11)

• “Greater is He who is in you than he who is in the world.” (1 John 4:4)

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