How to edify others with our words?
How can we ensure our words edify others in church settings?

Our Guiding Verse

“Yet in the church I would rather speak five words with my mind in order to instruct others than ten thousand words in a tongue.” (1 Corinthians 14:19)


Why Paul’s Choice Matters

- Edification tops eloquence.

- Clarity beats impressiveness.

- Love directs content and tone.


Principles for Edifying Speech

- Speak to be understood; avoid insider jargon.

- Aim to build, not to showcase gifts.

- Keep messages concise and Scripture-saturated.

- Ensure every word points hearers toward Christ.


Practical Steps Before Speaking

• Pray: invite the Spirit to guide heart and tongue (Luke 12:12).

• Examine motive: desire to serve, not to shine (1 Peter 4:11).

• Filter through truth: confirm alignment with the Word (John 17:17).

• Plan for clarity: outline key points; avoid needless digressions.

• Check tone: seasoned with grace, not harshness (Colossians 4:6).

• Seek confirmation: trusted believers can flag blind spots (Proverbs 27:17).


Scriptural Connections

- Ephesians 4:29 — “Only what is helpful for building up…”

- Proverbs 15:23 — “A man finds joy in giving an apt reply…”

- James 3:1-2 — Teachers bear weighty responsibility over words.

- Colossians 3:16 — Let the word of Christ dwell richly as we teach and admonish.


A Quick Edification Checklist

□ True to Scripture

□ Clear and understandable

□ Motivated by love

□ Timely and fitting

□ Humble in delivery

□ Directed toward spiritual growth


Growing Together in Grace

- Encourage testimonies that spotlight God, not the speaker.

- Foster a culture of gentle correction when words wound.

- Celebrate concise, Scripture-centered contributions in gatherings.

- Model edifying speech at leadership level; the body will follow.

Why does Paul prefer 'five intelligible words' over 'ten thousand words in a tongue'?
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