How to foster unity in your church?
What practical steps can you take to promote unity within your church community?

Rooted in the Cornerstone

“In Him the whole building is fitted together and grows into a holy temple in the Lord.” (Ephesians 2:21)


Christ sets the pattern for unity

• He is the Cornerstone (Ephesians 2:20).

• Every stone takes its place by aligning with Him—not personal preferences.

• Unity grows as each believer remembers we are being built into one temple, not many little sheds.


Why Unity Matters

• Jesus prayed “that they may all be one” (John 17:21).

• “How good and pleasant it is when brothers live together in harmony!” (Psalm 133:1).

• A unified church makes the gospel visible (John 13:34-35).


Practical Steps to Promote Unity

1. Align Your Heart with Truth

• Stay in the Word together—one foundation keeps many hearts on the same page.

• Hold fast to “the faith that was once for all delivered” (Jude 3) to avoid divisions over shifting opinions.

2. Prioritize Gathering

• “Do not neglect meeting together” (Hebrews 10:25).

• Show up consistently; presence communicates value and fosters familiarity.

3. Cultivate Humility and Gentleness

• “With all humility and gentleness, with patience, bearing with one another in love” (Ephesians 4:2).

• Assume the best about motives; ask questions before drawing conclusions.

4. Listen Actively

• “Everyone should be quick to listen, slow to speak” (James 1:19).

• Repeat back what you heard; it signals respect and clarifies misunderstandings.

5. Pursue Reconciliation Quickly

• “If your brother sins against you, go and show him his fault” (Matthew 18:15).

• Keep short accounts; unresolved conflicts harden like mortar in the wrong places.

6. Serve Side-by-Side

• “Through love serve one another” (Galatians 5:13).

• Shared projects—meal trains, outreach events, facility care—bond hearts while meeting needs.

7. Speak Edifying Words

• “Let no unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only what is helpful for building up” (Ephesians 4:29).

• Praise publicly, correct privately, and keep gossip off the table.

8. Pray Together Regularly

• Corporate prayer knits believers together (Acts 1:14).

• Thank God for each member by name; gratitude softens attitudes.

9. Celebrate Diversity, Guard Doctrine

• Welcome different backgrounds and giftings (1 Corinthians 12:12-27).

• Draw firm lines on essential truths (Galatians 1:8), flexible lines on secondary issues (Romans 14:19).

10. Model Sacrificial Love

• “Clothe yourselves with love, which is the bond of perfect unity” (Colossians 3:14).

• Give time, resources, and emotional energy for the good of others—love costs, but it unites.


Fruit to Expect

• A holy temple that visibly displays God’s glory (Ephesians 2:21-22).

• A witness that attracts the watching world (Acts 2:46-47).

• A family where each member grows and flourishes (Ephesians 4:15-16).

How does Ephesians 2:21 connect with 1 Corinthians 3:16 about being God's temple?
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