How can we "greet one another with a holy kiss" today? Seeing the Command in Context “Greet one another with a holy kiss.” (Romans 16:16) • Repeated four other times: 1 Corinthians 16:20; 2 Corinthians 13:12; 1 Thessalonians 5:26; 1 Peter 5:14. • A universal instruction—addressed to whole congregations, not just one culture. What a “Holy Kiss” Meant Then • Common Near-Eastern sign of affection and respect, usually cheek-to-cheek. • Practiced family-to-family; the church, as God’s family, carried it inside the gathering (Acts 20:37; Luke 7:45). • “Holy” sets it apart—pure, self-controlled, honoring Christ. Timeless Principles to Keep 1. Family warmth—brothers and sisters united in Christ (John 13:34-35). 2. Purity—no hint of impropriety (Ephesians 5:3). 3. Equality—rich and poor, Jew and Gentile, male and female all welcomed (Galatians 3:28). 4. Intentionality—greeting is an active ministry, not a social extra (Hebrews 10:24-25). Translating the Practice for Today • The form may shift, but the heart must stay. • Culture determines what communicates sincere, pure affection: – Handshake or shoulder-to-shoulder hug. – Brief side hug among close friends. – Warm eye contact plus a spoken blessing where touch is unwelcome. – In some cultures, a cheek kiss is still normal; keep it. Practical Ideas for Different Settings Home gatherings • Greet at the door with a firm handshake or gentle hug and the words “Peace in Christ.” Sunday worship • Designate a moment to exchange greetings; pair experienced members with newcomers so no one stands alone. Youth ministry • Fist-bump or high-five paired with a smiling “Glad you’re here in Jesus’ name.” Senior care visits • Light hand squeeze, direct gaze, and Scripture spoken aloud. Cross-cultural missions • Learn the local respectful greeting; add a verbal blessing: “The Lord bless you.” Boundaries That Keep the Greeting Holy • Always ask permission if unsure about touch. • Men primarily greet men; women greet women in settings where mixed touch might offend. • Public, brief, non-sensual contact only—avoid secluded situations. • Let the weaker conscience set the limit (Romans 14:19-21). A Witness to the Watching World • Authentic, holy warmth displays the gospel’s reconciling power (Ephesians 2:14-16). • Visitors sense they’ve entered a genuine family (Psalm 133:1). • Consistent practice trains hearts to love tangibly, fulfilling Christ’s new commandment (John 13:35). Living It Out • Treat every greeting as ministry: “Lord, let this touch or word carry Your grace.” • Maintain purity, preserve joy, and keep the command literal in principle—adapted in form—to greet one another with a holy kiss today. |
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