How to guide the wise daily?
How can we "instruct the wise" in our daily interactions with others?

Key verse

Proverbs 9:9: ‘Instruct a wise man, and he will be wiser still; teach a righteous man, and he will increase his learning.’”


Who Scripture Calls “wise”

• Those who fear the LORD (Proverbs 1:7)

• Those who love His commands (Psalm 119:97–100)

• Those who walk in righteousness (Proverbs 10:9)


Why instruction matters

• God designs wisdom to grow, not remain static

• Shared truth multiplies blessing within the body of Christ (Colossians 3:16)

• Mutual sharpening displays God’s character to a watching world (Proverbs 27:17)


Heart posture for instructing the wise

• Humility that remembers all wisdom originates with God (James 1:5)

• Love that seeks the other person’s growth, not self-promotion (1 Corinthians 8:1)

• Teachability even while teaching, ready to receive fresh insight yourself (Philippians 2:3–4)


Practical ways to instruct the wise in daily interactions

• Speak Scripture naturally in conversation, letting God’s words carry the authority (2 Timothy 3:16)

• Share personal testimony of how a verse has corrected or encouraged you today

• Highlight connections between a current situation and biblical principles rather than offering bare opinion

• Affirm the wisdom already evident in the other person before adding further light

• Offer concise, thoughtful observations instead of lengthy lectures

• Ask for their perspective on a passage and build on the truth they voice, creating a collaborative exchange

• Recommend faithful resources—sound commentaries, sermons, hymns—that expand understanding

• Model obedience; lived truth is the most persuasive lesson (1 Timothy 4:12)


Guardrails to keep instruction fruitful

• Avoid quarrelsome tones; gentleness makes knowledge acceptable (Proverbs 15:1–2)

• Refuse flattery; genuine commendation upholds integrity (Proverbs 28:23)

• Steer clear of speculative teaching; anchor every point in clear biblical text (1 Timothy 1:4)

• Pray privately for the Spirit to seal the truth in both hearts (Ephesians 6:18)


Outcomes Scripture promises

• The wise become wiser, creating a ripple effect of godliness (Proverbs 9:9)

• Fellowship deepens as shared truth knits hearts together (Acts 2:42)

• God receives glory when His people grow in discernment and love (Philippians 1:9–11)


Living it out today

• Begin each morning by filling your own heart with the Word so you have overflow to share

• Enter conversations ready to listen first, then weave in biblical insight

• Celebrate when a fellow believer shows growth, acknowledging the Spirit’s work

• End each day thanking God for moments where truth passed from one image-bearer to another, trusting Him to keep the increase

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