How can we practically "do good" to those who do not reciprocate? The Call to Radical Goodness “Love your enemies, do good to them, and lend to them, expecting nothing in return. Then your reward will be great, and you will be sons of the Most High; for He is kind to the ungrateful and wicked.” — Luke 6:35 Why Keep Doing Good When It’s Not Returned? • Obedience: Our Lord plainly commands it (Luke 6:27, 35). • Imitation: We mirror the Father’s indiscriminate kindness (Matthew 5:45). • Witness: Good done to the unresponsive highlights Christ’s transforming power (1 Peter 2:12). • Reward: “In due season we will reap, if we do not give up” (Galatians 6:9). Practical Ways to Live This Out • Speak blessing, not retaliation – “Bless those who curse you, pray for those who mistreat you” (Luke 6:28). • Meet tangible needs – Prepare a meal, offer childcare, or give a ride (Romans 12:20). • Lend or give without strings – If you cannot afford to lose it, don’t lend it; if you lend, release the outcome to God (Luke 6:34–35). • Practice silent service – Wash a coworker’s mug, refill the printer, shovel a neighbor’s drive—with no fanfare (Matthew 6:4). • Guard your tone online – Respond courteously to hostile posts; refuse to trade insults (1 Peter 3:9). • Remember birthdays and milestones – A card or text can soften resistant hearts (Proverbs 25:21). • Choose consistent courtesy – Hold the door, greet warmly, say “thank you,” even when ignored (Romans 12:21). • Intercede daily – Ask God to bless them, change you, and open doors for gospel grace (Ephesians 6:18). Overcoming Common Obstacles • Fatigue: “Do not grow weary in well-doing” (Galatians 6:9). Rest in Christ, then resume. • Fear of exploitation: Jesus knows and still commands; He safeguards ultimate justice (Romans 12:19). • Bitterness: Forgive as you were forgiven (Ephesians 4:32). • Cynicism: Recall Christ’s patience with you (1 Timothy 1:16). Promised Outcomes • Personal likeness to Christ deepens (1 Peter 2:21-23). • God receives visible glory (Matthew 5:16). • Some hearts will eventually soften (Proverbs 25:22). • Eternal reward is secured, even if earthly gratitude never comes (Luke 6:35). Takeaway Summary Doing good to those who give nothing back is not optional; it is a Spirit-empowered hallmark of genuine discipleship. Trust the Father, mirror His generosity, and let faithful kindness speak louder than any unreturned favor. |