What practical steps can you take to "revere your mother and father" today? Key Verse “Each of you must respect his mother and father, and you must observe My Sabbaths. I am the LORD your God.” – Leviticus 19:3 Why Reverence Matters Reverence is more than polite manners; it is a God-given mandate, rooted in His character and grounded in His unchanging Word. By taking this command literally and seriously, we reflect our submission to the Lord Himself (Ephesians 6:1-3). Practical Steps to Revere Your Parents Today • Speak with Honor – Address them with courtesy: “please,” “thank you,” “yes, Mom,” “yes, Dad.” – Avoid sarcasm or dismissive tones (Proverbs 30:17). • Listen Attentively – Give full attention when they talk; put away devices. – Acknowledge their wisdom: “Listen to your father’s instruction, and do not forsake your mother’s teaching” (Proverbs 1:8-9). • Obey Willingly (When Appropriate) – If you are still under their authority, obey without dragging your feet (Colossians 3:20). – If you are an adult, weigh their counsel seriously, even when you must make the final decision (Proverbs 23:22). • Express Gratitude Regularly – Verbally thank them for sacrifices, guidance, and love. – Write notes, send texts, or call just to say “I appreciate you.” • Provide Practical Help – Assist with chores, errands, or technology. – If they are aging, plan for their care (1 Timothy 5:4): finances, medical appointments, safe housing. • Protect Their Reputation – Speak well of them in public and private. – Refuse gossip or criticism from others; respond with grace (Exodus 20:12). • Seek Their Wisdom – Invite their perspective on life decisions: career moves, parenting, spiritual growth. – Showing you value their insight honors them. • Forgive Quickly – Parents are imperfect; choose grace rather than bitterness (Ephesians 4:32). – Remember Christ’s forgiveness toward you. • Celebrate Milestones – Remember birthdays, anniversaries, and significant dates. – Organize gatherings or simple family meals to honor them. • Pray For and With Them – Lift their needs before the Lord. – Ask if you can pray together over concerns, demonstrating spiritual care. Supporting Scriptures for Daily Motivation Living It Out Each Day Set one small, concrete action this week—perhaps a heartfelt phone call, an offer to mow the lawn, or a handwritten note. Consistency, not grand gestures, builds a lifelong pattern of reverence that honors both your parents and the Lord who commands it. |