How to keep our hearts soft like Psalm 81:11?
How can we ensure our hearts are not "hardened" as in Psalm 81:11?

Psalm 81:11

“But My people did not listen to My voice, and Israel would not obey Me.”


Recognizing a Hardened Heart

• Dullness toward God’s Word (Jeremiah 6:10)

• Resistance to conviction (Acts 7:51)

• Substituting idols or self-willed plans for the Lord (Psalm 81:9)

• Chronic ingratitude despite God’s past deliverances (Romans 1:21)


Core Safeguard—Listen and Obey

• “Today, if you hear His voice, do not harden your hearts” (Psalm 95:7-8; Hebrews 3:7-8).

• Immediate obedience keeps the conscience tender (James 1:22-25).


Daily Practices That Keep the Heart Tender

• Consistent Scripture intake

– Let the Word dwell richly (Colossians 3:16).

– Read with the intent to respond, not merely to learn facts (John 13:17).

• Quick, honest confession

– “If we confess our sins, He is faithful and just to forgive” (1 John 1:9).

– Unconfessed sin layers calluses over the heart (Psalm 32:3-5).

• Cultivating gratitude

– Offer thanks “in everything” (1 Thessalonians 5:18).

– Remember past mercies (Deuteronomy 8:2). Gratitude softens the heart toward further obedience.

• Guarding against idolatry

– Anything treasured above God will slowly harden the affections (Matthew 6:21).

– Regularly ask, “Is there any rival for my trust or delight?” (Psalm 139:23-24).

• Pursuing humble dependence

– “God opposes the proud but gives grace to the humble” (James 4:6).

– Fasting, worship, and service remind us we are receivers, not self-sufficient.

• Yielding to the Holy Spirit

– Walk by the Spirit to avoid gratifying the flesh (Galatians 5:16).

– Sensitivity to His promptings strengthens obedience reflexes (Romans 8:14).

• Fellowship and mutual exhortation

– “Encourage one another daily… so that none of you may be hardened” (Hebrews 3:12-13).

– Transparent relationships provide warning lights when indifference starts to form.


Encouraging Promises for a Soft Heart

• God pledges, “I will give you a new heart and put a new spirit within you” (Ezekiel 36:26).

• “The LORD is near to the brokenhearted” (Psalm 34:18).

• He “finishes what He starts” in every obedient believer (Philippians 1:6).


Putting It All Together

Stay in the Word, stay responsive, stay grateful, stay humble, stay connected—by these simple, Spirit-empowered habits the heart remains tender, teachable, and eager to obey, avoiding the tragedy described in Psalm 81:11.

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