How to offer refuge like David did?
How can we offer refuge to others, as David did in 1 Samuel 22:23?

Setting the Scene: David’s Refuge Offer

• “Stay with me; do not be afraid, for the man who seeks your life seeks mine as well. You will be safe with me.” (1 Samuel 22:23)

• David, an outlaw himself, shelters Abiathar, the lone surviving priest from Nob.

• He pledges shared danger and shared security—an embodied promise of refuge.


Principles for Offering Refuge Today

• Share the load of risk

– David links his own safety to Abiathar’s.

Galatians 6:2: “Carry one another’s burdens, and in this way you will fulfill the law of Christ.”

• Provide tangible protection

– David gives a physical hiding place.

Proverbs 14:26: “He who fears the LORD is secure in confidence, and His children shall have a place of refuge.”

• Extend fearless welcome

– “Do not be afraid” echoes throughout Scripture (e.g., Matthew 11:28).

Romans 15:7: “Accept one another, then, just as Christ accepted you, in order to bring glory to God.”

• Model God’s own sheltering heart

Psalm 46:1: “God is our refuge and strength, an ever-present help in times of trouble.”

Ruth 2:12: refuge under His wings becomes refuge under ours.


Practical Steps for Everyday Life

• Open your home

– Spare room, couch, or even a meal can mirror David’s cave of Adullam.

Hebrews 13:2 urges hospitality even to strangers.

• Offer safety in conversation

– Be the person who keeps confidences, listens without judgment, and shields reputations.

• Stand with the vulnerable in public spaces

– Defend a bullied coworker, accompany a frightened neighbor, advocate for the unborn or the oppressed.

• Share resources sacrificially

– Food, finances, time—give until it costs something, as David risked Saul’s wrath.

• Build “refuge alliances” in the church

– Small groups that notice needs quickly; benevolence funds that respond immediately; prayer chains that uphold the fearful.


Motivations Shaped by Scripture

• Christ is our greater David—His cross is the ultimate refuge (Matthew 11:28).

• David’s later kindness to Mephibosheth (2 Samuel 9:7) shows long-term commitment, not a one-time gesture.

• When we shelter others we testify: “God did this for me first.”


Encouragement to Embody Refuge

• Look around: who is running from danger, shame, or despair?

• Speak David’s words aloud or in action: “Stay with me… You will be safe with me.”

• Expect God to magnify even small acts; He delights to turn caves into sanctuaries.

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