How to prioritize God's will over man's?
How can we avoid setting our minds on "man's interests" over God's will?

Setting the Scene: Two Competing Mindsets

“Get behind Me, Satan! You are a stumbling block to Me; for you do not have in mind the things of God, but the things of men.” (Matthew 16:23)

Peter loved Jesus, yet in that moment he sided with human logic over divine purpose. The same tug-of-war plays out in us every day.


Spotting the Pull of Man-Centered Thinking

• It prioritizes safety, comfort, reputation, or success above obedience.

• It trusts common sense over God’s revealed Word.

• It is often applauded by the crowd—and therefore feels natural.

• It can hide behind spiritual language (“Surely God wouldn’t let you suffer”).

Key cross-check: “Am I seeking the approval of men, or of God?” (Galatians 1:10).


Renewing the Mind with Truth

• Daily Scripture intake reshapes our default settings (Romans 12:2).

• Memorize passages that confront self-centered impulses (e.g., Colossians 3:2; Psalm 119:105).

• Meditate, don’t just skim—linger until the text challenges assumptions.


Practicing Moment-by-Moment Surrender

• Begin each day: “Lord, Your agenda over mine.”

• Throughout the day, pause and ask, “Is this decision furthering Your kingdom or my comfort?”

• End the day with honest review—celebrate obedience, confess compromise (1 John 1:9).


Holding Plans Loosely

• Lay out ambitions before God (Proverbs 3:5-6).

• Invite Him to close doors that are merely “good” so He can open doors that are “God.”

• Remember: “The world is passing away… but the one who does the will of God lives forever.” (1 John 2:17).


Seeking Kingdom Counsel

• Surround yourself with believers who value obedience over popularity.

• Give trusted friends permission to challenge motives.

• Measure advice against James 3:17 wisdom—“pure, then peaceable, gentle…”


Staying Dependent on the Holy Spirit

• Ask Him to expose self-promotion masquerading as spirituality.

• Rely on His power to act on convictions (Philippians 2:13).

• Walk in step with Him, not ahead or behind (Galatians 5:25).


Fixing Eyes on the Eternal Reward

• Jesus endured the cross “for the joy set before Him” (Hebrews 12:2).

• Keeping eternity in view makes present sacrifices reasonable (2 Corinthians 4:17-18).

• The Father’s “Well done” outweighs every earthly accolade.

By choosing these patterns—Word-saturated thinking, daily surrender, Spirit-directed living—we consistently move from “the things of men” to “the things of God.”

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