In what ways can we prioritize family obligations as seen in Ruth 4:5? Setting the scene Boaz sits at the city gate and reminds the closer kinsman-redeemer of the full cost of redemption: “On the day you buy the land from Naomi, you must also acquire Ruth the Moabitess, the widow of the deceased, in order to raise up the name of the deceased on his inheritance.” (Ruth 4:5) The verse highlights practical, covenant-bound ways God calls His people to honor family. Family obligations highlighted in Ruth 4:5 • Property Preservation – redeeming the land so it stays within the clan. • Personal Care – taking Ruth “also,” not as a burden but as family. • Name Continuation – providing a son so Mahlon’s line and inheritance endure. • Public Accountability – making the commitment openly at the gate. • Costly Sacrifice – assuming financial and relational responsibility without hesitation. Prioritizing family today • Actively redeem what has been lost – step into broken situations within the family; invest time, resources, prayer. • Care for the vulnerable relatives first – widows, aging parents, single parents, children in need of stability. • Safeguard the family’s spiritual heritage – teach Scripture diligently (Deuteronomy 6:6-7); model faith at home. • Value covenant over convenience – honor marriage vows; keep promises even when costly. • Plan for generational blessing – budget, save, and leave an inheritance (Proverbs 13:22). • Live transparently and accountably – involve trusted believers when making major family decisions, just as Boaz used the city gate. • Embrace sacrificial leadership – husbands loving like Christ (Ephesians 5:25); parents nurturing and disciplining in the Lord (Ephesians 6:4). Encouragement from other Scriptures • 1 Timothy 5:8 – “If anyone does not provide for his own, and especially his own household, he has denied the faith and is worse than an unbeliever.” • Deuteronomy 25:5-6 – establishes the levirate principle echoed in Ruth 4:5. • James 1:27 – caring for widows and orphans demonstrates pure religion. • Proverbs 23:22 – “Listen to your father who gave you life, and do not despise your mother when she is old.” These passages reinforce that prioritizing family is not optional; it is a tangible expression of covenant faithfulness and a living testimony to the goodness of God. |