How to prioritize others over self-gain?
In what ways can we prioritize serving others over personal gain, like Barzillai?

Barzillai’s Heart of Service

2 Samuel 19:35: “I am now eighty years old. Can I discern what is pleasant and what is not? Can your servant taste what he eats or drinks? Can I still hear the voice of singing men and women? Why should your servant be an added burden to my lord the king?”

• Barzillai had already supplied David and his men with food during the exile (2 Samuel 17:27-29).

• He requested nothing in return—even declining the king’s offer of honor in Jerusalem.

• His motive: honor God’s anointed and meet real needs, not secure personal advantage.


Choosing Others Over Personal Comfort

• Age and limitations did not excuse him; they highlighted his self-denial.

Philippians 2:3-4 calls believers to “in humility consider others more important than yourselves.” Barzillai lived it.

Mark 10:45—Jesus “did not come to be served, but to serve.” A servant-Messiah sets the pattern.

Acts 20:35—“It is more blessed to give than to receive.” Barzillai’s quiet generosity models that blessing.


Practical Ways to Prioritize Service Today

• Budget time and money for people, not merely projects. (Proverbs 3:27)

• Offer skills or resources without invoicing favor—serve anonymously when possible. (Matthew 6:3-4)

• Embrace inconvenient opportunities—late-night phone calls, hospital visits, mentoring teens. (Galatians 6:2)

• Stay engaged in ministry even when “retired.” Energy changes, calling endures. (Psalm 92:14)

• Let gratitude replace entitlement; refuse perks that shift focus to self. (Luke 17:10)

• Invest in successors—Barzillai sent Chimham in his place (2 Samuel 19:37-40), picturing discipleship that multiplies service.


Rewards God Promises to Selfless Servants

• Divine remembrance: Hebrews 6:10—“God is not unjust; He will not forget your work.”

• Spiritual fulfillment: Isaiah 58:10—“Your light will rise in the darkness.”

• Eternal honor: Matthew 25:21—“Well done, good and faithful servant.”

• Joy of Christlikeness now: John 13:17—“If you know these things, you will be blessed if you do them.”


Living the Barzillai Way

Lay down privileges, pick up needs, trust God for reward. Personal gain fades; the fruit of self-giving love endures.

How does Barzillai's perspective on life compare to Psalm 90:10?
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