How can we diligently seek good in our daily interactions with others? Reading the Verse Together “He who diligently seeks good finds favor, but evil comes to him who searches for it.” – Proverbs 11:27 What “Diligently Seek Good” Means - “Diligently” points to intentional, persistent effort—goodness on purpose, not by accident. - “Seek” is active; we’re not waiting for good to fall into our laps. - God promises “favor” (delight, approval, blessing) to the one who lives this way. Why This Matters in Our Relationships - Goodness reflects God’s own character (Psalm 119:68). - It keeps us from the snare described in the second half of the verse—letting evil boomerang back on us (Galatians 6:7). - It makes our witness credible (Matthew 5:16). Scripture Echoes That Amplify the Call - Galatians 6:10 – “So then, as we have opportunity, let us do good to everyone…” - Philippians 4:8 – “Whatever is true… honorable… just… think about these things.” - 1 Thessalonians 5:15 – “Always strive to do what is good for one another and for everyone else.” - Hebrews 10:24 – “Let us consider how to spur one another on to love and good deeds.” Practical Ways to Seek Good in Everyday Interactions • Begin each day asking, “Where can I add value?” • Speak words that build up, not tear down (Ephesians 4:29). • Listen before answering; respect the image of God in the other person (James 1:19). • Look for unnoticed needs—small acts like holding a door, writing a note, sharing a meal. • Be quick to forgive offenses (Colossians 3:13). • Celebrate others’ successes; envy poisons goodness (Romans 12:15). • Give honest, gentle correction when needed (Proverbs 27:6). • Practice generosity—time, resources, skills (2 Corinthians 9:7). Guarding Against the Opposite Path - Proverbs 11:27 warns that hunting for evil ensures it “comes to” us—sin rebounds. - Check motives: Are you seeking gossip, revenge, self-promotion? (James 3:14-16) - Replace the first hint of bitterness with prayerful surrender (Ephesians 4:31-32). Promises Attached to Seeking Good - “Finds favor” with God and people (Proverbs 3:3-4). - Harvest of righteousness and peace (James 3:17-18). - Strengthened fellowship; good multiplies (Hebrews 13:16). A Simple Daily Checklist □ Did I consciously aim to bless at least one person today? □ Were my words truthful and kind? □ Did I rejoice over someone else’s blessing? □ Did I overlook or forgive a wrong? □ Did I refuse to entertain harmful talk? □ Did I give practical help where I could? Living this checklist turns Proverbs 11:27 from a verse we admire into a life we experience. |