How can we show kindness to others, as David did in 2 Samuel 10:2? The Example of David’s Kindness – 2 Samuel 10:2 “David said, ‘I will show kindness to Hanun son of Nahash, just as his father showed kindness to me.’ So David sent some of his servants to console Hanun concerning his father.” (2 Samuel 10:2) Seeing People Through God’s Eyes • David remembered the kindness he had received and looked at Hanun with that same gracious lens. • We mirror this heart when we recognize every person as made in God’s image (Genesis 1:27) and worthy of our compassion (James 3:9). Taking the First Step • David “sent”—he initiated. Kindness does not wait to be asked. • Practical applications: – Text or call someone facing loss before they reach out. – Deliver a meal to a neighbor without being prompted. – Offer to babysit for weary parents. • “Let us not love with words or speech, but with actions and in truth” (1 John 3:18). Speaking Comfort and Encouragement • David’s mission was “to console.” Words carry healing power. • What this looks like: – A heartfelt note that acknowledges another’s pain. – Listening attentively rather than correcting. • “The tongue of the wise brings healing” (Proverbs 12:18). Giving Practical Help • David sent “servants,” suggesting resources and effort. • Ways to give: – Financial assistance to someone facing medical bills. – Sharing tools, time, or skills to repair a car or home. – Providing rides to appointments. • “Do not withhold good from the needy when it is within your power to act” (Proverbs 3:27). Persisting Even If Misunderstood • Hanun misinterpreted David’s kindness, yet David’s intent remained righteous (2 Samuel 10:3–4). • When kindness is rejected: – Maintain a gracious attitude (Romans 12:18). – Pray for those who misunderstand (Luke 6:28). – Keep doing good, trusting God with the outcome (Galatians 6:9). Looking to Christ, the Perfect Model • Jesus embodied covenant kindness—He came “to seek and to save the lost” (Luke 19:10). • Our kindness points others to Him: – “Be kind and tenderhearted to one another, forgiving each other just as in Christ God forgave you” (Ephesians 4:32). – “Love your enemies, and do good…then your reward will be great, and you will be sons of the Most High” (Luke 6:35). Putting It All Together 1. Remember past grace. 2. Initiate. 3. Console with words. 4. Offer tangible help. 5. Persevere through misunderstanding. 6. Reflect Christ. Live this pattern, and you will display the same covenant kindness David showed—kindness that flows from God’s unfailing love and draws people toward Him. |
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