How to speak truthfully, avoiding lies?
How can we ensure our words align with truth, avoiding "falsehood"?

Setting the Foundation: Ephesians 4:25

“Therefore each of you must put off falsehood and speak truthfully to his neighbor, for we are members of one another.”


Why Truth Matters

• God’s very nature is truth: “I am the way and the truth and the life.” (John 14:6)

• His Word is truth: “Sanctify them in the truth; Your word is truth.” (John 17:17)

• Lying aligns with the enemy: “When he lies, he speaks from his own nature, for he is a liar and the father of lies.” (John 8:44)


Practical Steps to Align Our Words with Truth

• Stay saturated in Scripture—truth in, truth out (Psalm 119:11).

• Think before speaking: “Everyone should be quick to listen, slow to speak.” (James 1:19)

• Verify facts; refuse to pass on unconfirmed information (Proverbs 18:13).

• Speak only what builds up: “Let no unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only what is helpful for building up.” (Ephesians 4:29)

• Commit to consistency—same words in private and public (Luke 12:2-3).


Guarding Against Falsehood

• Identify heart motives; deceit often masks pride or fear (Jeremiah 17:9).

• Reject gossip and slander: “Whoever spreads slander is a fool.” (Proverbs 10:18)

• Establish accountability—invite trusted believers to correct you (Proverbs 27:6).

• Watch digital communication; texts and posts matter as much as spoken words (Matthew 12:36).


Speaking Truth in Love

• Truth without love wounds; love without truth misleads (Ephesians 4:15).

• Tone, timing, and tenderness showcase Christ’s heart (Colossians 4:6).

• Aim for restoration, not humiliation (Galatians 6:1).


Benefits of Truthful Speech

• Longevity of influence: “Truthful lips endure forever.” (Proverbs 12:19)

• Freedom from bondage: “You will know the truth, and the truth will set you free.” (John 8:32)

• Closer fellowship with God and others (1 John 1:7).


Self-Examination Checklist

□ Is what I’m about to say accurate?

□ Have I verified my information?

□ Will these words honor Christ?

□ Do they edify the listener?

□ Am I willing for them to be repeated?


Scriptures for Daily Application

Proverbs 16:13—Truthful speech delights kings.

Psalm 34:13—Keep your tongue from evil.

Colossians 3:9—Do not lie to one another.

Zechariah 8:16—Speak truth to each other.

1 Peter 3:10—Guard lips from deceit.

Living out Ephesians 4:25 means habitual, Spirit-enabled honesty. Truth brings freedom, fosters unity, and reflects the character of our Lord.

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