How to support others in tough times?
What practical steps can we take to encourage others facing trials?

Setting the Scene

The people of Jabesh-gilead were under threat from Nahash the Ammonite. Saul, newly anointed king, heard the news, rallied Israel, and sent this message of assurance.


Key Verse

1 Samuel 11:9: “So they said to the messengers who had come, ‘Tell the men of Jabesh-gilead, “By the time the sun is hot tomorrow, you will be delivered.”’ When the messengers went and reported this to the men of Jabesh, they rejoiced.”


What We Learn from Saul’s Encouraging Message

•It was clear and direct: “You will be delivered.”

•It offered a concrete timeframe: “By the time the sun is hot tomorrow.”

•It stirred immediate joy and renewed courage in those who heard it.


Practical Steps to Encourage Others Facing Trials

1. Speak Promises, Not Platitudes

•Share God’s sure Word instead of vague optimism.

Romans 8:28—remind them that “all things work together for good.”

Psalm 46:1—“God is our refuge and strength, an ever-present help in trouble.”

2. Provide Specific Hope

•Saul named the moment of deliverance; specificity calms anxiety.

•When possible, give tangible help or a clear plan rather than general sympathy.

3. Act Swiftly and Decisively

•Saul did not delay; quick action lessens fear’s grip.

Galatians 6:10—“As we have opportunity, let us do good to everyone.”

4. Stand with Them Publicly

•Israel’s army gathered as one; unity breeds confidence.

Hebrews 10:24-25—encourage and assemble together, especially in hardship.

5. Keep Communication Flowing

•Messengers carried updates; ongoing contact sustains hope.

Proverbs 25:25—“Like cold water to a weary soul is good news from a distant land.”

6. Follow Through Until Deliverance Comes

•Saul led the battle the next day; promises were matched by action.

James 2:16—offer help in deed, not words alone.


Additional Scriptures that Bolster Encouragement

2 Corinthians 1:3-4—God comforts us so we can comfort others.

Isaiah 35:3-4—“Strengthen the weak hands… say to those with anxious hearts, ‘Be strong; do not fear!’”

1 Thessalonians 5:11—“Therefore encourage one another and build each other up.”


Putting It All Together

When someone faces a trial, let’s be the messenger who carries concrete hope, clear plans, and steadfast presence—mirroring Saul’s confident word to Jabesh-gilead and reflecting the unfailing promises of our God.

How does this verse connect to God's faithfulness in Exodus 14:13-14?
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