What steps can you take to teach children the value of honoring parents? Setting the Foundation: Matthew 15:4 “For God said, ‘Honor your father and mother’…” • Jesus quotes the Fifth Commandment, treating it as God’s unchanging word. • He links disrespect with grave judgment, underscoring that honor is not optional. • Because Scripture is accurate and literal, every household can take this directive at face value. Model Honor First • Speak courteously to your own parents and in-laws—even on hard days. • Avoid sarcastic remarks about authority figures; children copy tone more than content. • Keep promises and show up on time; reliability teaches respect without a lecture. Invite Children into Scripture • Read short passages together: – Exodus 20:12—“Honor your father and your mother…” – Ephesians 6:1—“Children, obey your parents in the Lord…” • Memorize one verse a week; recite it at the dinner table. • Act out Bible stories (e.g., Samuel listening to Eli) so honor comes alive. Form Everyday Habits that Reinforce Honor • “Yes, Mom / Yes, Dad” responses—simple words shape the heart. • Chore charts labeled “Serving the Family” rather than “Jobs.” • Write thank-you notes to grandparents; gratitude feeds honor. • Let the child pray a blessing over parents at bedtime. Correct Gently but Firmly • When disrespect appears, address it immediately—silence implies approval. • Use Proverbs 13:24 to explain loving discipline: boundaries are for their good. • Require restitution: a hurtful word is followed by a sincere apology and a helpful act. Celebrate Obedience • Praise specific actions: “I noticed how quickly you came when I called.” • Share testimonies of God’s favor that followed honoring choices (Ephesians 6:2-3). • Mark milestones—such as a birthday—by speaking a parental blessing aloud. Keep the Promise in View “Honor your father and mother…so that it may go well with you” (Ephesians 6:2-3). • Children learn that God ties obedience to tangible blessing: peace, protection, long life. • Remind them that honoring parents ultimately expresses love for Christ Himself. Consistent modeling, Scripture saturation, practical habits, loving correction, and joyful celebration—these steps weave honor into the fabric of a child’s heart and home. |
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