How can we apply Isaac's example of avoiding strife in our lives? The Scene at Esek “ ‘The water is ours!’ So he named the well Esek, because they contended with him.” (Genesis 26:20) Isaac’s servants had reopened a well, only to have the Philistine herdsmen claim ownership. Conflict could have erupted in an instant, yet Isaac chose a different path. What Isaac Did—and Didn’t Do • He did not argue or retaliate. • He accepted loss of time, effort, and resources without demanding his “rights.” • He moved on and dug another well (v. 21–22). • He trusted God to provide space and abundance somewhere else. Timeless Principles Drawn from Isaac’s Response • Yielding can be a mark of strength, not weakness (Proverbs 19:11). • God honors those who refuse to quarrel (James 3:18). • Peace often opens doors for greater blessing (Genesis 26:22). • Relinquishing earthly claims reminds us that God is the true Source (Psalm 23:1). Practical Steps for Today 1. Pause before speaking: “A gentle answer turns away wrath” (Proverbs 15:1). 2. Evaluate the cost of winning: Is the issue worth damaged relationships or gospel witness? 3. Choose the path of peace when possible: “If it is possible on your part, live at peace with everyone” (Romans 12:18). 4. Replace contention with constructive action—serve, bless, or simply walk away (Matthew 5:39-41). 5. Trust God for provision beyond the conflict, as Isaac did at Rehoboth (Genesis 26:22). 6. Cultivate a peacemaker’s heart through prayerful dependence on the Spirit (Galatians 5:22-23). Strength to Live It Out “The Lord’s bond-servant must not be quarrelsome but must be kind to everyone” (2 Timothy 2:24). In Christ we have the power to yield without fear, confident that He sees every loss and rewards every act of quiet faith (1 Peter 2:23). |