How does "the water is ours" show entitlement?
What does "the water is ours" reveal about human nature and entitlement?

Setting the Scene

Genesis 26:20 recounts a quarrel between Isaac’s herdsmen and the herdsmen of Gerar: “But the herdsmen of Gerar quarreled with Isaac’s herdsmen, saying, ‘The water is ours!’ So he named the well Esek, because they contended with him”. Isaac has just reopened wells originally dug by Abraham, only to face immediate opposition from local shepherds who lay claim to the resource.


Immediate Observations

• Water in the Negev meant life; to control a well was to control survival.

• The Gerar herdsmen overlook Abraham’s prior claim and Isaac’s labor in re-digging.

• Their declaration is short, forceful, and absolute: “The water is ours!”—no room for negotiation, gratitude, or shared stewardship.


Human Nature Exposed

• Self-interest first: When resources feel scarce, instinct pushes “me and mine” (cf. James 4:1-2).

• Envy and resentment: Isaac’s prosperity triggered jealousy earlier (Genesis 26:14), and that attitude now surfaces in a tangible dispute.

• Forgetfulness of history: The locals ignore Abraham’s earlier wells (Genesis 21:25-30), rewriting ownership to suit present desires.

• Fear of scarcity: Rather than trusting God’s ongoing provision, they cling to control (cf. Matthew 6:31-32).

• Contention as default: Fallen hearts often choose conflict over cooperation (Proverbs 13:10).


Entitlement Unpacked

• “Ours” claims absolute right, denying God’s ultimate ownership: “The earth is the LORD’s, and the fullness thereof” (Psalm 24:1).

• It treats blessings as earned possessions, not gifts to steward (1 Corinthians 4:7).

• It resists generosity and peace, the very qualities God honors (Matthew 5:9; Hebrews 12:14).


Patterns Elsewhere in Scripture

• Israel grumbling, “Why have you brought us up… to die of thirst?” (Exodus 17:3)—the same entitlement tone.

• Edom’s refusal of passage, protecting its “own” water (Numbers 20:17-21).

• The rich fool boasting of his barns (Luke 12:16-21)—another “it’s mine” mindset.

• Early church believers reversing entitlement through shared goods (Acts 4:32).


God’s Desired Alternative

• Stewardship, not ownership: we manage resources for His glory (Genesis 1:28; 1 Peter 4:10).

• Contentment: “Keep your lives free from the love of money and be content with what you have” (Hebrews 13:5).

• Generosity: “Whoever refreshes others will be refreshed” (Proverbs 11:25).

• Peaceable spirit: Isaac moves on to dig other wells (Genesis 26:21-22), trusting God rather than fighting for position.


Personal Takeaways

• Check the heart when saying “mine”—does it reflect Psalm 24:1 or Gerar’s claim?

• Practice open-handed living: share time, resources, influence.

• Trust God’s supply; scarcity fear drives entitlement, but faith frees us to yield.

• Pursue peace even when wronged, as Isaac did, believing “your gift will make room for you” (Proverbs 18:16).

How can we apply Isaac's example of avoiding strife in our lives?
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