How can we apply Jacob's example of asking about Laban's peace today? Context: Jacob’s first words in Haran “Then Jacob asked them, ‘Is he well?’ ‘He is well,’ they answered. ‘Look, his daughter Rachel is coming with the sheep.’ ” (Genesis 29:6) What Jacob teaches us in a single question • He starts a new relationship with concern, not self-interest. • He seeks shalom (peace, well-being) before any personal agenda. • He shows practical respect for Laban’s household before asking for help. Timeless principles we can live out • Genuine interest precedes genuine influence. • Peace-minded greetings set the tone for every conversation (cf. Numbers 6:24-26). • Relationships thrive when we value people as image-bearers rather than resources. Practical ways to ask about someone’s peace today 1. Begin conversations with sincere welfare checks—then listen. 2. Follow up with action: if needs surface, meet them (James 2:15-16). 3. Use words that build, not merely fill silence (Ephesians 4:29). 4. Make it habitual—regular texts, calls, or visits that ask, “How is it with you?” 5. In workplaces, ask about colleagues’ families and burdens before tasks. 6. At church, greet by name and stay long enough to hear the answer (Romans 12:10). 7. In the neighborhood, learn rhythms and notice when something is “off” (Proverbs 27:23). Related Scriptures reinforcing Jacob’s approach • Philippians 2:4 — “Each of you should look not only to your own interests, but also to the interests of others.” • Galatians 6:2 — “Carry one another’s burdens, and in this way you will fulfill the law of Christ.” • 1 Thessalonians 5:11 — “Therefore encourage and build one another up, just as you are already doing.” A closing challenge Every greeting is a miniature mission field. Like Jacob, begin with a peace-seeking question, listen well, and be ready to act. Shalom-minded conversations silently preach the gospel of love and open hearts for deeper spiritual dialogue. |
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