How can we apply Jonathan's courage in our relationships today? Jonathan’s Courage in a Single Sentence “ ‘Look, the arrows are beyond you,’ then you must go, for the LORD has sent you away.” — 1 Samuel 20:22 What We See in Jonathan • He risks his own standing with his father to protect David’s life. • He chooses loyalty to God’s anointed over loyalty to earthly power. • He communicates hard truth with clarity, yet with gentleness. • He acts quickly; courage does not stall. Why This Matters for Us • Personal relationships often call for truth-telling that costs us social capital. • Conflict can pull us toward silence or flattery; Jonathan shows a better path. • God still honors those who fear Him more than they fear people (Acts 5:29). Living Jonathan’s Courage Today • Speak truth even when it threatens comfort. – Ephesians 4:15 “speaking the truth in love.” • Protect friends when they are vulnerable. – Proverbs 17:17 “A friend loves at all times…” • Choose God’s purpose over personal advantage. – Matthew 6:33 “Seek first the kingdom of God…” • Act promptly on conviction. – James 4:17 “Whoever knows the right thing to do and fails to do it, for him it is sin.” • Accept possible loss for righteousness’ sake. – Matthew 5:10 “Blessed are those who are persecuted because of righteousness…” Practical Steps 1. Identify one relationship where avoidance has replaced honesty; schedule a gentle, direct conversation this week. 2. Intercede for a friend under attack—verbally defend if needed, privately pray always. 3. Evaluate motives: Would I still act if no one recognized my bravery? 4. Anchor decisions in Scripture before counsel from culture. 5. Practice small acts of courage daily—confess a mistake, refuse gossip, stand up for truth online. Verses to Memorize for Courage The Result Relationships tempered by Jonathan-like courage become safe places for truth, honor, and God’s purposes to flourish. |
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