Jonathan vs. Jesus: Friendship Actions?
Compare Jonathan's actions with Jesus' teachings on friendship in John 15:13.

Setting the Scene

Jonathan, the son of King Saul, loved David “as himself” (1 Samuel 18:1). From the moment they met, Jonathan’s choices illustrated the very heart of friendship later defined by Jesus.


Jonathan’s Sacrificial Actions

1 Samuel 18:4 – “Jonathan removed the robe he was wearing and gave it to David, along with his tunic, even his sword, his bow, and his belt.”

– He voluntarily laid aside royal privileges so David could be equipped and honored.

1 Samuel 19:1–3 – Jonathan risked his own standing to warn David of Saul’s murderous intent.

1 Samuel 20:30–34 – When Saul hurled a spear at him, Jonathan endured his father’s wrath to protect David.

1 Samuel 23:16–17 – He sought David out in the wilderness “and strengthened his hand in God,” encouraging his friend to trust the Lord.

1 Samuel 20:42 – “Go in peace, for we have sworn friendship with each other in the name of the LORD.”


Jesus’ Standard in John 15:13

John 15:13: “Greater love has no one than this, that he lay down his life for his friends.”

• Jesus speaks of the supreme act of friendship—self-sacrifice to the point of death.

• He immediately positions Himself as the ultimate Friend (vv. 14–15) and anticipates His own cross.


Points of Comparison

• Self-Giving Love

– Jonathan: Gave up royal garments, weapons, and the throne itself (1 Samuel 23:17).

– Jesus: Gave His own life (Philippians 2:6–8).

• Protection at Personal Cost

– Jonathan: Faced Saul’s fury; endured potential loss of inheritance.

– Jesus: Bore the wrath of God for sinners (Romans 5:8–9).

• Covenant Loyalty

– Jonathan: Bound himself to David in a covenant before God (1 Samuel 18:3).

– Jesus: Establishes a new covenant in His blood (Luke 22:20).

• Strengthening the Friend

– Jonathan: “Strengthened his hand in God” (1 Samuel 23:16).

– Jesus: Sends the Holy Spirit to indwell and empower His friends (John 14:16-17).


Lessons for Us Today

• True friendship is covenantal, not casual—rooted in commitment before God (Proverbs 17:17).

• Real love chooses another’s welfare over personal advantage (1 John 3:16).

• Friendship flourishes when we point one another to the Lord, as Jonathan did for David.

• Jonathan’s story foreshadows and validates Jesus’ teaching; his actions give us a tangible human model of the standard Jesus perfectly fulfilled.

How can we discern God's guidance like David in 1 Samuel 20:22?
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