In what ways can we apply "spiritual wisdom" in our family life? Setting the Scene “For this reason, since the day we heard about you, we have not stopped praying for you and asking that you may be filled with the knowledge of His will in all spiritual wisdom and understanding,” (Colossians 1:9). Paul’s desire is that believers live every area of life—home included—by the wisdom the Holy Spirit provides. Spiritual wisdom is not abstract; it is the practical, God-given ability to see life from His viewpoint and act accordingly. What Spiritual Wisdom Means for Families • Knowing God’s will through His Word and living it out together • Letting biblical truth—not emotions or culture—set our family priorities • Leaning on the Spirit’s guidance in everyday decisions, large and small Daily Expressions of Spiritual Wisdom at Home 1. Christ-Centered Conversation • Speak Scripture naturally (Deuteronomy 6:6-7). • Replace gossip or complaint with words that build up (Ephesians 4:29). 2. Purposeful Parenting • Discipline and instruction flow from the Lord’s character (Ephesians 6:4). • Model repentance: parents apologize quickly, showing how grace works. 3. Time Management That Honors God • Schedule worship, rest, and service first (Exodus 20:8-10; Hebrews 10:24-25). • Evaluate activities through the lens, “Does this help us grow in Christ?” 4. Financial Stewardship • Budget prayerfully (Proverbs 3:9-10). • Teach children generosity early (2 Corinthians 9:7). 5. Conflict Resolution • Address issues promptly; refuse bitterness (Ephesians 4:26-27). • Forgive as the Lord forgave you (Colossians 3:13). Practical Steps to Grow in Spiritual Wisdom Together • Family Scripture Reading: one passage a day, discussed briefly. • Shared Prayer Lists: keep answered prayers visible to celebrate God’s work. • Memory Verses on the Fridge: rotate weekly; reward participation. • Serve Together: choose a ministry as a household—meals for shut-ins, church setup, local outreach. • Sabbath Rhythms: guard one evening or day for rest, worship, and reconnection. Encouragement from Related Passages • James 1:5 — “If any of you lacks wisdom, he should ask God, who gives generously to all without finding fault, and it will be given to him.” • Proverbs 3:5-6 — “Trust in the LORD with all your heart, and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways acknowledge Him, and He will make your paths straight.” • Ephesians 5:15-17 — “Be very careful, then, how you walk, not as unwise but as wise, redeeming the time, because the days are evil. Therefore do not be foolish, but understand what the Lord’s will is.” Putting It All Together Spiritual wisdom is God’s gift for real life. When families open the Bible, rely on the Spirit, and align choices with God’s revealed will, home becomes a training ground for discipleship, a testimony to the world, and a place where Christ’s peace rules. |