How can we "walk in wisdom" in our daily interactions with non-believers? The Call: Wisdom with Outsiders “Act wisely toward outsiders, redeeming the time.” (Colossians 4:5) God’s Word speaks plainly: our daily steps among those who do not yet know Christ must be marked by wisdom that values every moment. --- What Wisdom Looks Like • Anchored in truth—Scripture is flawless, so our counsel must flow from it. • Christ-centered—people should sense we belong to Jesus before we ever say His name. • Purpose-driven—every encounter is an opportunity for the gospel, not random chance. --- Redeeming the Time: Making Every Moment Count • Be intentional—plan to engage, not avoid, unbelieving neighbors and coworkers. • Spot divine appointments—interruptions may be Spirit-arranged moments (Acts 8:26-35). • Refuse wasted words—set aside gossip or idle chatter that does not edify (Ephesians 5:15-16). --- Conversation That Draws People “Let your speech always be gracious, seasoned with salt, so that you may know how to answer everyone.” (Colossians 4:6) • Gracious tones—gentleness invites listening (1 Peter 3:15). • Salty substance—truth that preserves, flavors, and creates thirst for more. • Thoughtful listening—wisdom asks sincere questions before sharing answers (Proverbs 18:13). --- Character That Undergirds Words • Consistent integrity—live what you preach; hypocrisy voids witness (Matthew 5:16). • Humble service—acts of kindness open doors the tongue alone cannot (Titus 3:1-2). • Pure motives—seek their good, not a notch on a belt (1 Thessalonians 2:8). --- Practical Checkpoints for Walking in Wisdom • Begin each day surrendered to the Spirit’s control (Galatians 5:16). • Carry Scripture in mind—memorize key verses that guide speech and decisions. • Pray privately for those you meet—intercession softens your heart toward them. • Choose edifying topics—steer talk toward hope, purpose, and truth. • Accept questions patiently—wisdom is calm, not defensive (James 3:17). • End conversations well—offer help, a follow-up coffee, or a simple “I’m praying for you.” --- Scriptures to Meditate On • Ephesians 5:15-16 – “Pay careful attention, then, to how you walk, not as unwise but as wise, redeeming the time, because the days are evil.” • 1 Peter 3:15 – “Always be prepared to give a defense… yet with gentleness and respect.” • James 3:17 – “But the wisdom from above is first pure, then peace-loving, considerate, submissive, full of mercy and good fruit, impartial, and sincere.” • Matthew 5:16 – “Let your light shine before men, that they may see your good deeds and glorify your Father in heaven.” Following these God-given principles, we step into every interaction ready to display Christ’s wisdom, redeeming each moment for His glory. |