How can we incorporate solitude in our prayer life as Jesus did? Jesus’ Example of Solitude • “Very early in the morning, while it was still dark, Jesus got up and slipped out to a solitary place to pray.” (Mark 1:35) • The pattern repeats: “Yet He frequently withdrew to the wilderness to pray.” (Luke 5:16); “After He had dismissed the crowds, He went up on the mountain by Himself to pray.” (Matthew 14:23) • Key observations – He chose a time before daily demands began. – He sought a location free from interruption. – He guarded the practice as essential, even when ministry needs were pressing (see Mark 1:36-38). Why Solitude Deepens Prayer • Undistracted attention—removing noise clears the mind to “be still, and know that I am God.” (Psalm 46:10) • Heart re-alignment—the hush helps us hear the “gentle whisper.” (1 Kings 19:12) • Sincerity—privacy invites open confession and honest worship (Matthew 6:6). • Strength—“In quietness and trust is your strength.” (Isaiah 30:15). Making Space for Solitude Today 1. Schedule it – Set an early or otherwise protected slot; treat it as immovable. 2. Choose a place – A spare room, parked car, trail, or church sanctuary—somewhere you will not be interrupted. 3. Disconnect – Silence devices; leave them outside the space if possible. 4. Begin with Scripture – Read a short passage aloud (e.g., a psalm); let God speak first. 5. Speak and listen – Pour out praise, thanksgiving, confession, and requests, then sit in expectant silence. 6. Journal impressions – Record insights or verses brought to mind; this reinforces listening. 7. Close deliberately – End with gratitude, committing the day to Him. Scriptural Encouragements for Quiet Seekers • “Rest in God alone, O my soul, for my hope comes from Him.” (Psalm 62:5) • “But when you pray, go into your inner room, shut your door, and pray to your Father, who is unseen.” (Matthew 6:6) • “In repentance and rest you will be saved; in quietness and trust is your strength.” (Isaiah 30:15) Keeping the Practice Thriving • Start small—ten focused minutes are better than an hour you never attempt. • Link it to an existing habit (coffee, walk, commute) to build consistency. • Guard the boundary—politely decline distractions; Jesus did (Mark 1:37-38). • Review regularly—note how solitude sharpens discernment, calms anxiety, and fuels love for others, reinforcing its value. |