Jonathan vs. Jesus: Friendship Actions
Compare Jonathan's actions to Jesus' teachings on friendship in John 15:13-15.

Scripture Focus—John 15:13-15

“Greater love has no one than this, that he lay down his life for his friends. You are My friends if you do what I command you. No longer do I call you servants, for a servant does not understand what his master is doing. But I have called you friends, because everything I have learned from My Father I have made known to you.”


Jonathan’s Covenant Love with David (1 Samuel 18:1-4; 20:13-17, 30-34; 23:15-18)

• Jonathan “knit” his soul to David and loved him “as himself.”

• He gave David his robe, armor, sword, bow, and belt—symbolic surrender of royal rights.

• He warned David of Saul’s plots, risking his own standing and safety.

• He pledged, “May the LORD be with you as He has been with my father” (20:13), accepting God’s choice of David as king.

• He willingly faced Saul’s fury, even a spear hurled at him (20:30-33), for David’s sake.

• He renewed covenant loyalty in the wilderness, encouraging David “in God” (23:16-17).


Parallels to Jesus’ Teaching on Friendship

• Sacrificial love

– Jonathan surrendered throne, status, and security; Jesus defines friendship by “laying down one’s life.”

• Obedience linked to friendship

– Jonathan’s loyalty flowed from shared faith in the LORD (20:14-17); Jesus says, “You are My friends if you do what I command you.”

• Revelation and transparency

– Jonathan disclosed Saul’s secret plans; Jesus makes known “everything I have learned from My Father.”

• Initiative and choosing

– Jonathan sought David first (18:1-3); Jesus says, “I have called you friends,” choosing disciples (cf. 15:16).

• Covenant bond

– Jonathan cut a covenant with David; Jesus offers the New Covenant in His blood (Luke 22:20).


Further Scriptural Echoes

1 John 3:16 —“By this we know love: Jesus Christ laid down His life for us, and we ought to lay down our lives for our brothers.”

Proverbs 17:17 —“A friend loves at all times.”

Proverbs 18:24 —“There is a friend who sticks closer than a brother.”


Key Takeaways for Today

• True friendship embraces self-denial for another’s good.

• Loyalty to God undergirds loyalty to friends.

• Friendship thrives on honest disclosure, not hidden agendas.

• Choosing someone’s welfare over personal advancement mirrors Christ.

• Covenant faithfulness in human relationships reflects the unbreakable covenant Christ offers His followers.

How can we apply Jonathan's wisdom in 1 Samuel 20:7 to our lives?
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