Keep hearts open to God's guidance?
How can we ensure our hearts remain soft to God's guidance and correction?

Jeremiah’s Broken Heart

“ ‘But if you will not listen, my soul will weep in secret because of your pride; my eyes will weep bitterly and overflow with tears, because the LORD’s flock has been taken captive.’ ” (Jeremiah 13:17)


The Picture Behind the Tears

• Jeremiah’s grief springs from his certainty that the LORD’s warning is literal and sure.

• A proud, unresponsive heart brings real captivity; a humble, listening heart receives life and freedom.


What a Tender Heart Does

• Listens quickly: “Today, if you hear His voice, do not harden your hearts.” (Hebrews 3:15)

• Grieves over sin: “Blessed are those who mourn, for they will be comforted.” (Matthew 5:4)

• Responds in obedience: “Be doers of the word and not hearers only, deceiving yourselves.” (James 1:22)


Common Routes to Hardness

• Pride that says, “This word is for others, not me.”

• Habitual sin that deadens sensitivity (Ephesians 4:17-19).

• Neglect of Scripture, letting other voices grow louder (Amos 8:11).


Cultivating Ongoing Softness

• Daily Scripture intake

– Approach the Word expecting God to speak.

– Let it judge thoughts and intentions (Hebrews 4:12).

• Immediate confession

– Keep accounts short; agree with God as soon as conviction comes (1 John 1:9).

• Active remembrance

– Recall past mercies; gratitude melts resistance (Psalm 103:2).

• Yielded prayer posture

– Invite divine searchlight: “Search me, O God… see if there is any offensive way in me.” (Psalm 139:23-24)

• Spirit-led fellowship

– Allow trusted believers to exhort you daily “so that none of you may be hardened by sin’s deceitfulness.” (Hebrews 3:13)


God’s Promise for the Soft-Hearted

“I will give you a new heart and put a new spirit within you; I will remove your heart of stone and give you a heart of flesh.” (Ezekiel 36:26)

Staying tender is not self-work alone; it is continual surrender to the God who delights to keep hearts alive, responsive, and full of His Spirit.

Connect Jeremiah 13:17 with another scripture about the consequences of disobedience.
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