What does "turn aside" in 2 Samuel 2:21 teach about avoiding unnecessary battles? Setting the Scene • After Saul’s death, rivalry arises between the house of Saul (led by Abner) and the house of David (with Joab and his brothers). • Asahel, Joab’s swift-footed brother, pursues Abner across rugged terrain. • In the heat of that chase we read: “Abner said to him, ‘Turn aside to your right or to your left; seize one of the young men and take his equipment.’ But Asahel would not stop chasing him.” (2 Samuel 2:21) Observing the Phrase “Turn Aside” • Hebrew root: סוּר (sur) — to deviate, depart, leave off, avoid. • Imperative: Abner pleads for a deliberate change of direction. • The invitation is not cowardice; it is the counsel of one who sees the needless bloodshed that will follow if Asahel refuses. Lessons on Avoiding Unnecessary Battles • Identify when a conflict is not yours to win. – Abner offers Asahel alternate spoils of war (“seize one of the young men”), signaling that honor is not at stake. • Evaluate motive vs. consequence. – Asahel’s pursuit is driven by zeal, yet Abner foresees tragedy (v. 23). • Heed godly warnings. – Proverbs 19:20: “Listen to counsel and accept discipline, that you may be wise the rest of your days.” • Preserve relationships whenever possible. – Romans 12:18: “If it is possible on your part, live at peace with everyone.” • Understand that retreat can be righteous. – Jesus Himself “withdrew” at times to avoid premature confrontation (John 7:1; Matthew 12:15). Cautionary Results of Ignoring the Call to Turn Aside • Asahel refuses; Abner is forced to defend himself, striking Asahel and ending his life (v. 23). • The ripple effect: Joab later kills Abner in retaliation (2 Samuel 3:27). One impulsive decision spreads violence through an entire nation. New Testament Echoes • 2 Timothy 2:23–24: “Reject foolish and ignorant controversies… The Lord’s servant must not be quarrelsome but must be kind to everyone.” • James 3:17: “The wisdom from above is first pure, then peace-loving… willing to yield.” Practical Takeaways for Today • Pause before pursuing every disagreement; ask whether the matter truly serves God’s purposes. • Listen when even an “enemy” urges restraint—God may be using unexpected voices to spare you. • Recognize that stepping aside is often an act of courage that safeguards future unity. • Teach the next generation discernment: not every issue is worth the chase. |
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