Why does Abner tell Asahel to turn aside?
Why does Abner suggest Asahel turn aside in 2 Samuel 2:21?

Contextual Background

The pursuit unfolds immediately after the skirmish at the pool of Gibeon (2 Samuel 2:12–17). Abner, commander of Saul’s remaining forces, is retreating north toward Mahanaim. David’s men under Joab, Abishai, and Asahel press the advantage. The text stresses Asahel’s exceptional speed—“swift of foot as a gazelle” (v. 18)—yet also notes that he is virtually alone in chasing the seasoned general.


Character Profiles: Abner and Asahel

Abner: veteran commander, cousin of Saul (1 Samuel 14:50), politically astute, fully armed.

Asahel: younger brother of Joab and Abishai (1 Chronicles 2:16), renowned runner, likely lightly equipped, eager to earn honor by slaying a prominent foe.


Ancient Near Eastern Warfare and Honor Culture

Killing an opposing commander brought immediate prestige and rich spoil (cf. 1 Samuel 18:27; 2 Samuel 1:10). Victors regularly stripped the fallen (v. 21b, “take his equipment”). Yet Near Eastern custom also recognized personal honor debts. To slay a prominent warrior from one’s own wider kin-group (both Abner and Asahel were Benjaminites by adoption into Saul’s house through marriage alliances) risked a blood-feud spiraling for generations (Numbers 35:19-27).


The Imperative of Avoiding Bloodguilt

Abner’s appeal, “Why should I strike you down? How could I then look your brother Joab in the face?” (2 Samuel 2:22), reveals Mosaic-Law consciousness. Under Torah a relative of the slain became go’el haddam (“blood-avenger,” Numbers 35:24-28). Abner foresees Joab’s legal—and personal—right to seek retaliation, something that later becomes reality (2 Samuel 3:27).


Political Ramifications

Abner is the power behind Saul’s son Ish-bosheth (2 Samuel 2:8). Eliminating Joab’s brother would intensify civil war, hardening David’s camp against future reconciliation. Indeed, within a year Abner will shift loyalty to David (2 Samuel 3:6-21). Sparing Asahel keeps that door open.


Preservation of Military Hierarchy and Morale

For Abner, dying at the hands of an impetuous junior would devastate his army’s morale. His offer that Asahel “seize one of the young men” (v. 21) redirects the younger man’s ambition toward a target whose defeat will not decapitate Israel’s northern command.


Theological and Ethical Dimensions

1. Restraint in Warfare: Abner models reluctant violence, echoing Deuteronomy 20:10’s preference for peace before bloodshed.

2. Value of Life: Even amid civil conflict, life retains sanctity (Genesis 9:6). Abner’s plea highlights that principle.

3. Consequences of Rash Zeal: Asahel’s refusal illustrates Proverbs 19:2—“zeal without knowledge is not good.” His death typifies the peril of disregarding wise counsel.


Cross-References for Further Study

Numbers 35:9-34 – cities of refuge and blood-avenger law.

Proverbs 17:14 – “Starting a quarrel is like breaching a dam.”

Matthew 5:25-26 – Jesus’ counsel to reconcile quickly with an adversary.

Romans 12:18-19 – “As far as it depends on you, live at peace… leave room for God’s wrath.”


Archaeological and Historical Corroboration

Iron-Age II bronze scale armor and sword pommels, unearthed at Khirbet Qeiyafa and Megiddo, match the “equipment” Israelites stripped from fallen foes. Such items were tangible proof of valor, explaining Abner’s concession to Asahel’s honor culture.


Application for Believers Today

• Seek reconciliation over escalation; anticipate long-term fallout from short-term victories.

• Heed counsel, especially from seasoned leaders (Hebrews 13:17).

• Understand that even adversaries may be instruments of common grace, restraining greater evil (Romans 13:3-4).


Conclusion

Abner urges Asahel to turn aside to preserve life, avert bloodguilt, maintain political flexibility, and provide the young warrior a safer path to honor. Asahel’s tragic refusal underscores Scripture’s consistent warning against impetuous zeal and the cascading consequences of ignoring wise, peace-seeking counsel.

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