Lesson of "offer as example" in leadership?
What does "offer ourselves as an example" teach about Christian leadership?

Setting the Scene

2 Thessalonians 3:9: “Not that we lack this right, but we wanted to offer ourselves as an example for you to imitate.”

• Paul had every apostolic right to receive material support (cf. 1 Corinthians 9:4–14), yet he chose tentmaking in Thessalonica (Acts 18:3) so the church could watch him serve without charge.

• His choice turns a spotlight on the phrase “offer ourselves as an example,” the heartbeat of authentic Christian leadership.


Leaders Who Live the Message

Scripture consistently pairs leadership with visible, godly patterns:

1 Corinthians 11:1 — “Be imitators of me, as I am of Christ.”

Philippians 3:17 — “Join one another in following my example.”

1 Peter 5:2–3 — shepherds are “examples to the flock,” not overlords.

Titus 2:7 — “In everything, show yourself to be an example by doing good works.”

A leader’s life is the first sermon the people hear.


Why Example Leadership Matters

• Credibility: Conduct backs up words (1 Thessalonians 1:5).

• Clarity: Complex doctrine becomes concrete when lived out (John 13:14–15).

• Motivation: People imitate what they admire (Hebrews 13:7).

• Protection: A transparent life guards against hypocrisy (1 Timothy 4:16).

• Multiplication: Disciple-making begins with “watch me, then follow me” (2 Timothy 2:2).


What “Offer Ourselves” Looks Like in Practice

• Servant posture: Washing feet, not seeking perks (John 13:13–15).

• Willing sacrifice: Laying aside legitimate rights for others’ growth (1 Corinthians 9:12).

• Visible integrity: Honesty in work, finances, relationships (Acts 20:33-35).

• Steady work ethic: Paul “worked night and day” (2 Thessalonians 3:8), modeling diligence.

• Joyful contentment: Trusting God for provision instead of demanding support (Philippians 4:11-13).

• Reproducible rhythms: Prayer, Word intake, fellowship lived openly so others can copy (Acts 2:42).


The Cost and the Reward

Cost

• Time and energy: Example requires presence.

• Privacy: Lives are on display.

• Misunderstanding: Some may exploit a leader’s self-denial.

Reward

• Growing believers who mature faster by imitation (1 Thessalonians 1:6-8).

• A clear conscience and unassailable witness (2 Corinthians 1:12).

• Eternal commendation from Christ, “Well done” (1 Peter 5:4).


Key Takeaways for Today

• Christian leadership is more caught than taught; character precedes content.

• Surrendering personal rights can open doors for the gospel that power plays would close.

• Leaders set the culture; when they model service, the body learns to serve.

• The standard is not perfection but persistent, observable pursuit of Christlikeness.

How does 2 Thessalonians 3:9 encourage us to lead by example today?
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