Lesson on fasting in Matthew 9:14?
What does Jesus' response in Matthew 9:14 teach about fasting's purpose and timing?

The Setting

Matthew 9:14: “Then John’s disciples came to Him and asked, ‘Why do we and the Pharisees fast often, but Your disciples do not fast?’”

• Two groups—John’s disciples and the Pharisees—practiced regular, scheduled fasts.

• They are puzzled because Jesus’ followers are not joining their routine.


Jesus’ Immediate Answer

Matthew 9:15: “Jesus replied, ‘How can the guests of the bridegroom mourn while He is with them? The time will come when the bridegroom will be taken from them; then they will fast.’”

• Jesus identifies Himself as “the bridegroom,” drawing on Old Testament imagery of God as Israel’s husband (Isaiah 62:4-5; Hosea 2:19-20).

• He links fasting with mourning, not mere ritual.

• He foretells His departure, marking a future season when fasting will again be fitting.


Fasting’s Purpose Highlighted by Jesus

• Expression of mourning, repentance, and longing for God’s presence (Joel 2:12-13).

• A voluntary act of humility, not a public badge of piety (Matthew 6:16-18).

• A means to intensify prayer and dependence on the Lord (Acts 13:2-3; 14:23).

• A vehicle for spiritual focus—turning from food to feast on God’s Word (Deuteronomy 8:3).


Timing According to Jesus

• Not appropriate while the Bridegroom is physically present—joy is the fitting response.

• Appropriate after His ascension, in the “time” when believers wait for His return.

• Fasting becomes situational, Spirit-prompted, not bound to the Pharisaic twice-a-week schedule (Luke 18:12).

• It fits seasons of grief, repentance, guidance-seeking, or intensified intercession.


Implications for Believers Today

• Fast when you sense deep need: sin to confess, guidance to seek, burdens to bear.

• Let fasting spring from love for Christ and longing for His Kingdom, not obligation.

• Combine fasting with Scripture meditation and prayer for maximum spiritual benefit.

• Maintain joy when He answers—fasting gives way to celebration, echoing wedding-feast imagery (Revelation 19:7-9).


Caution Against Empty Ritual

Isaiah 58:3-7 warns that fasting without righteousness is useless.

• Jesus condemns showy fasting; secrecy safeguards sincerity (Matthew 6:16-18).

• The heart’s posture determines whether a fast delights God.


Joy in the Present, Hunger for the Future

• Because Christ indwells believers by His Spirit, every day carries a taste of the Bridegroom’s presence; joy remains foundational (Philippians 4:4).

• Yet the Church still hungers for the full, visible return of Christ. Fasting lives in that tension—rejoicing in what is, yearning for what will be.

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