What does "ruthless men" in Proverbs 11:16 teach about godly character? “A gracious woman attains honor, but ruthless men gain only wealth.” Key Word: “Ruthless” • Hebrew ʿārîṣ—violent, harsh, fierce; one who pursues his goal with no regard for others. • Implies cruelty, intimidation, and a willingness to sacrifice people for profit. What the Contrast Teaches about Godly Character • God measures success by honor, not mere assets; graciousness secures lasting esteem, while ruthlessness ends with empty pockets of the soul. • Character, not cash, is the true currency before the Lord (cf. 1 Samuel 2:30; Proverbs 22:1). • Means matter: righteous ends must be reached by righteous ways (Proverbs 16:8). • Greed-driven force is self-defeating—wealth without honor invites judgment and isolation (Proverbs 11:4; James 5:1-3). Living the Lesson • Pursue graciousness—speak gently, show courtesy, extend mercy. • Examine motives: if profit demands trampling someone, turn away (Proverbs 15:27). • Value relationships and reputation above revenue (Ecclesiastes 7:1). • Trust God to supply needs; resist shortcuts that injure others (Matthew 6:33). Further Scripture Echoes • Psalm 37:16-17 — “Better the little of the righteous than the abundance of many wicked.” • Proverbs 28:20 — “A faithful man will abound with blessings, but one eager to be rich will not go unpunished.” • 1 Timothy 6:9-10 — craving riches pierces with many sorrows. Proverbs 11:16 reminds us that godly character prizes honor over gain, gentleness over grasping, and eternal reward over temporary riches. |