Lesson on godly character in Prov 11:16?
What does "ruthless men" in Proverbs 11:16 teach about godly character?

Proverbs 11:16

“A gracious woman attains honor, but ruthless men gain only wealth.”


Key Word: “Ruthless”

• Hebrew ʿārîṣ—violent, harsh, fierce; one who pursues his goal with no regard for others.

• Implies cruelty, intimidation, and a willingness to sacrifice people for profit.


What the Contrast Teaches about Godly Character

• God measures success by honor, not mere assets; graciousness secures lasting esteem, while ruthlessness ends with empty pockets of the soul.

• Character, not cash, is the true currency before the Lord (cf. 1 Samuel 2:30; Proverbs 22:1).

• Means matter: righteous ends must be reached by righteous ways (Proverbs 16:8).

• Greed-driven force is self-defeating—wealth without honor invites judgment and isolation (Proverbs 11:4; James 5:1-3).


Living the Lesson

• Pursue graciousness—speak gently, show courtesy, extend mercy.

• Examine motives: if profit demands trampling someone, turn away (Proverbs 15:27).

• Value relationships and reputation above revenue (Ecclesiastes 7:1).

• Trust God to supply needs; resist shortcuts that injure others (Matthew 6:33).


Further Scripture Echoes

Psalm 37:16-17 — “Better the little of the righteous than the abundance of many wicked.”

Proverbs 28:20 — “A faithful man will abound with blessings, but one eager to be rich will not go unpunished.”

1 Timothy 6:9-10 — craving riches pierces with many sorrows.

Proverbs 11:16 reminds us that godly character prizes honor over gain, gentleness over grasping, and eternal reward over temporary riches.

How does Proverbs 11:16 define the value of 'graciousness' for women today?
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