What can we learn from David's respect for Saul despite their history? Setting the Scene “Then David took up this lament for Saul and his son Jonathan.” — 2 Samuel 1:17 Saul had chased David for years, hurling spears and leading armies to take his life. Yet when Saul dies, David’s first recorded response is not relief but a heartfelt elegy. What fueled such astonishing respect? Key Moments That Reveal David’s Heart • 1 Samuel 24:5-7 — David cuts Saul’s robe but immediately repents: “The LORD forbid that I should do such a thing… He is the LORD’s anointed.” • 1 Samuel 26:9-11 — Faced with another chance to end Saul’s life, David refuses: “Who can stretch out his hand against the LORD’s anointed and be guiltless?” • 2 Samuel 1:11-12 — When the news of Saul’s death reaches him, David tears his clothes and weeps all day. • 2 Samuel 1:19-27 — His lament highlights Saul’s bravery and success, omitting all the painful memories. Principle 1: Respecting God’s Sovereign Choices • David viewed Saul’s kingship as God-given, not man-granted. • Romans 13:1-2 reinforces the same truth: “There is no authority except from God.” • By honoring Saul, David ultimately honored the Lord who had placed Saul on the throne. Principle 2: Living Above Offense • David refused to let Saul’s sins dictate his own behavior. • Proverbs 20:22: “Do not say, ‘I will repay evil.’ Wait for the LORD, and He will deliver you.” • David trusted God to handle justice; his role was to remain obedient. Principle 3: Guarding Our Words About Authority • David’s lament sets the tone: no gloating, no recounting of wrongs—only dignity. • Exodus 22:28: “You shall not curse God, nor curse a ruler of your people.” • Our speech about leaders—parents, pastors, bosses, officials—reveals our view of God’s ordering of life. Principle 4: Loving the Unlovely Mirrors God’s Heart • Matthew 5:44 commands, “Love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you.” • David illustrates this not only in restraint but also in genuine sorrow over Saul’s fall. • 2 Samuel 9 follows with David’s kindness to Jonathan’s crippled son—love that extends beyond the grave. Practical Takeaways for Today • Acknowledge God’s hand behind every authority figure, even flawed ones. • Surrender personal vengeance, trusting God’s perfect justice and timing. • Speak honorably; refuse gossip or gloating when leaders stumble. • Actively seek ways to bless those who oppose or mistreat you, modeling Christ’s love. |