What can we learn from Moses' actions about honoring family relationships? Setting the Scene “So Moses went out to meet his father-in-law and bowed down and kissed him. They greeted each other and went into the tent.” (Exodus 18:7) What Moses Actually Did • He “went out” – Moses took the initiative; he did not wait for Jethro to arrive at his door. • He “bowed down” – a physical act of humility before an elder. • He “kissed him” – open, affectionate warmth. • They “greeted each other” – a mutual exchange of peace and blessing. • They “went into the tent” – hospitality and private conversation followed the public honor. Timeless Principles on Honoring Family 1. Initiative shows value – Waiting passively can suggest indifference. Stepping out first communicates importance (cf. Genesis 46:29; Joseph “went up to meet Israel his father”). 2. Humility protects relationships – Bowing was not worship of Jethro; it was respect. Humility makes room for peace (Proverbs 15:33). 3. Appropriate affection strengthens bonds – God-given affection is right and healthy (Luke 15:20; the father “embraced and kissed” the prodigal). 4. Words of blessing matter – Hebrew greetings often invoked shalom. Our speech can “give grace to those who hear” (Ephesians 4:29). 5. Hospitality deepens fellowship – Inviting someone into personal space shows trust and esteem (Romans 12:13; “practice hospitality”). Related Scriptural Echoes • Exodus 20:12 – The command to “Honor your father and your mother,” illustrated here before it was even engraved in stone. • Leviticus 19:32 – “You are to rise in the presence of the elderly…; you must fear your God.” Moses embodies both respect and godly fear. • 1 Timothy 5:8 – Providing for household members is an aspect of honor; Moses provides spiritual leadership and counsel after this greeting. • Ruth 2:10 – Ruth bows before Boaz, another picture of humility and honor in family-redeemer relationships. Practical Takeaways for Today • Go out of your way—literally—to honor parents, in-laws, grandparents, or spiritual mentors. • Let body language communicate what words alone cannot: stand, embrace, make eye contact. • Speak blessing; avoid casual or dismissive tones. • Create space—your “tent”—where deeper conversation can happen. • Remember that honoring family is not optional; it is obedience to God’s unchanging Word. |
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