What can we learn about godly character from Abraham's interactions in Genesis 23:6? Setting the Scene Sarah has died in Hebron. Abraham, still a “stranger and sojourner” (Genesis 23:4), approaches the local Hittites to purchase a burial site. Their immediate response is recorded in Genesis 23:6: “Listen to us, my lord. You are a mighty prince among us. Bury your dead in the finest of our tombs. None of us will withhold his tomb from you to bury your dead.” The Hittites’ Testimony About Abraham • “My lord” — they address him with honor. • “A mighty prince among us” — they publicly recognize God’s blessing on him. • “None of us will withhold” — they are eager to show favor to him. This spontaneous tribute reveals more about Abraham’s character than his own words ever could. Traits of Godly Character Evident • Consistent Integrity – Years of honest dealings made his word trustworthy (cf. Proverbs 10:9). • Visible Faith Walk – His life of altar-building and obedience was known even among pagans (Genesis 12:7-8; 13:4). • Humble Sojourner’s Heart – Though called a “mighty prince,” he still calls himself “a foreigner” (23:4), showing humility (James 4:6). • Peaceable Reputation – No record of coercion or conflict with these neighbors; he modeled Romans 12:18 centuries before it was written. • Blessing-Bearer – God’s promise, “I will bless you…and you will be a blessing” (Genesis 12:2), is tangibly fulfilled as the Hittites rush to help him. Why Reputation Matters • “A good name is more desirable than great riches” (Proverbs 22:1). • Leaders “must have a good reputation with outsiders” (1 Timothy 3:7). • Our conduct should prompt others to “glorify your Father in heaven” (Matthew 5:16). Abraham’s life illustrates these truths long before they were written down. Practical Ways to Cultivate Similar Character • Keep your word, even in small agreements. • Live openly for God; let altars of worship mark your daily routines. • Treat those outside your faith community with respect and fairness. • Pursue peace proactively; avoid quarrels that dim God’s light in you. • Serve as a channel of blessing—generosity softens hearts. Looking Ahead to the Ultimate Example Abraham’s respected, peace-loving stance foreshadows the perfect character of Christ, “greater than Abraham” (John 8:53). As we walk by faith, the same Lord shapes in us a reputation that points others to Him. |