What lessons on seeking wise counsel can we learn from 2 Chronicles 10:10? Setting the Scene Rehoboam has just inherited the throne of Israel. The people appeal for lighter labor and taxation than under Solomon. Before replying, Rehoboam first consults the elders, then turns to the young men who grew up with him. It is the advice of these peers that 2 Chronicles 10:10 records: “‘My little finger is thicker than my father’s waist.’” (2 Chronicles 10:10) Their counsel is harsh, boastful, and dismissive, foreshadowing disaster for the kingdom. The Counsel Rehoboam Chose • Elders: urged servant–leadership and kindness (2 Chronicles 10:7). • Peers: urged intimidation and heavier burdens (2 Chronicles 10:10–11). Rehoboam rejects seasoned wisdom and embraces youthful bravado, fracturing the nation (2 Chronicles 10:19). Lessons on Seeking Wise Counsel • Look for godly character over shared background. – The elders had walked with Solomon and seen God’s blessing; their lives demonstrated reverence for the Lord (Proverbs 16:31). • Weigh motives behind advice. – Peers sought to protect privilege and power; true counselors aim at righteousness and the good of all (Proverbs 27:6). • Multiple counselors safeguard decisions. – “For lack of guidance, a nation falls, but with many counselors there is deliverance.” (Proverbs 11:14) • Humility opens the door to wisdom. – Rehoboam’s pride deafened him. “God opposes the proud but gives grace to the humble.” (James 4:6) • Align counsel with revealed Scripture. – The law required kindness to fellow Israelites (Leviticus 25:35–43). Advice that contradicts God’s heart, however popular, must be rejected. • Consider long-term effects, not immediate applause. – The peers’ counsel felt strong in the moment but ignored future fallout; wisdom looks ahead (Proverbs 22:3). • Seek input from those farther along spiritually. – “Gray hair is a crown of glory; it is attained along the path of righteousness.” (Proverbs 16:31) Age does not guarantee wisdom, but a track record of faithfulness often refines insight. • Pray for discernment before deciding. – “If any of you lacks wisdom, he should ask God, who gives generously to all without reproach.” (James 1:5) Practical Takeaways for Today • Cultivate relationships with mature believers who see issues through a biblical lens. • When facing choices, write out counsel received, sift it through Scripture, and note motivations observed. • Beware of echo chambers—friends who only reinforce your preferences. • Adopt a servant mindset; decisions made for self-exaltation usually injure others. • Regularly invite the Holy Spirit to check pride, keeping your heart teachable. |
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