How does Matthew 15:4 relate to the Ten Commandments in Exodus 20:12? Why Jesus Mentions the Command • Pharisees allowed the “Corban” tradition (vv. 5-6) to nullify parental support. • Jesus quotes the Fifth Commandment verbatim to expose how man-made rules can override God’s clear word. • By adding Exodus 21:17 (“Whoever curses father or mother must be put to death”), He reminds them that dishonor carries grave consequences. Direct Link to Exodus 20:12 • Exodus 20:12: “Honor your father and your mother, so that your days may be long in the land that the LORD your God is giving you.” • Matthew 15:4 restates that same command—affirming its ongoing authority under the new-covenant Messiah. • Jesus treats the command as God’s timeless moral law, not a cultural relic. Continuity of God’s Law • The New Testament never relaxes the Fifth Commandment (cf. Ephesians 6:2-3; Colossians 3:20). • Jesus’ citation shows the Decalogue remains a standard for righteous living (Matthew 5:17-19). • Scripture is internally consistent: Old and New Testaments speak with one voice. Honor Defined • Practical care—financial, physical, emotional (Proverbs 23:22). • Respectful speech—no reviling, gossip, or eye-rolling (Exodus 21:17). • Obedient heart—submitting to parental wisdom unless it contradicts God (Luke 2:51). Blessings Attached • Long life “in the land” (Exodus 20:12) points to God-given stability and wellbeing. • Paul calls it “the first commandment with a promise” (Ephesians 6:2). • Jesus implies forfeiture of blessing when tradition overrides obedience. Living the Passage Today • Review any modern “traditions” that excuse neglect of aging parents. • Speak well of parents even when their imperfections are obvious. • Teach children early that honoring parents is God’s idea, anchored in both Testaments. • Trust that the Lord’s promise of blessing still stands when we obey literally. |
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