How does Moses' request to Jethro demonstrate respect and obedience to authority? Setting the Scene Exodus 4 finds Moses fresh from the burning bush, filled with God’s commission to free Israel. Before taking a single step toward Egypt, he walks back to Midian and faces one practical hurdle: his father-in-law and employer, Jethro. Scripture records the moment: “Then Moses went back to his father-in-law Jethro and said to him, ‘Please let me return to my brothers in Egypt to see if they are still alive.’ ‘Go in peace,’ Jethro replied.” (Exodus 4:18) Moses Honors His Father-in-Law Moses’ simple sentence brims with respect: • “Please let me…”—a humble, courteous request, not a demand. • “Return to my brothers…”—he explains his motive honestly. • He waits for Jethro’s response and blessing: “Go in peace.” Though God’s call was clear and urgent, Moses still recognized Jethro’s rightful authority over his household and flock. By putting earthly responsibility in order first, Moses mirrored Proverbs 3:4—“Then you will find favor and high esteem in the sight of God and man”. Key Marks of Respect in Moses’ Request 1. Submission to lawful authority – He was shepherding Jethro’s sheep (Exodus 3:1). Leaving without permission would have been theft of labor and animals. 2. Courtesy of speech – “Please” conveys gentleness (cf. Colossians 4:6). 3. Truthfulness about intentions – No hidden agenda, cultivating trust (Ephesians 4:25). 4. Patience for blessing – He waits until Jethro says, “Go in peace,” aligning with the principle of peaceable departures (James 3:17). Why Human Authority Still Matters When God Calls • God establishes all authority (Romans 13:1). Obedience to human leaders honors the divine order. • The fifth commandment—“Honor your father and mother” (Exodus 20:12)—extends to other familial authorities like a father-in-law. Moses obeys before the command is formally given. • Submission and mission are partners, not rivals. Jesus lived thirty obedient years under Joseph and Mary before public ministry (Luke 2:51). Moses follows the same pattern. • Proper leave-taking safeguards witness; sudden abandonment would cast doubt on Moses’ character among Midianites and Israelites alike (1 Peter 2:12). Echoes Throughout Scripture • Nehemiah asked the Persian king’s permission before rebuilding Jerusalem (Nehemiah 2:4–6). • David respected Saul’s authority even while anointed to replace him (1 Samuel 24:5–7). • Paul consulted the Jerusalem elders regarding his gospel ministry (Galatians 2:1–2). All show the same rhythm: God’s call, then deference to earthly overseers. Practical Takeaways for Today • When God directs, begin by honoring existing commitments—family, employer, church leadership. • Use gracious speech; the “please let me” attitude opens doors (Proverbs 15:1). • Seek a blessing before a transition. Leaving “in peace” plants seeds for continuing fellowship and future cooperation. • Remember that obedience to God’s hierarchy amplifies, not diminishes, spiritual authority. Moses walked out of Midian with Jethro’s goodwill—and soon parted the Red Sea with God’s power. |