NT teachings like Job 31:30 restraint?
Which New Testament teachings align with Job's restraint in Job 31:30?

Job 31:30 in Focus

“I have not allowed my mouth to sin by asking for his life with a curse.” (Job 31:30)


Echoes in Jesus’ Words

Matthew 5:43-44 – “You have heard that it was said, ‘Love your neighbor’ and ‘Hate your enemy.’ But I tell you, love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you.”

Luke 6:27-28 – “Love your enemies, do good to those who hate you, bless those who curse you, pray for those who mistreat you.”

Matthew 5:21-22 – Jesus links anger and contemptuous speech with murder of the heart, calling for restrained, grace-filled words.


Paul’s Calls to Bless, Not Curse

Romans 12:14 – “Bless those who persecute you. Bless and do not curse.”

Romans 12:17-21 – Repay no one evil for evil; overcome evil with good.

1 Corinthians 4:12-13 – “When we are reviled, we bless … when slandered, we answer gently.”

Ephesians 4:29-32 – Let no unwholesome talk come out of your mouth; put away bitterness, wrath, anger, and malice.


Peter’s Reinforcement

1 Peter 3:9 – “Do not repay evil with evil or insult with insult, but with blessing, because to this you were called so that you may inherit a blessing.”


James on the Power of the Tongue

James 3:8-10 – “No man can tame the tongue… With the tongue we bless our Lord and Father, and with it we curse men… My brothers, this should not be!”


Guarding the Heart Behind the Tongue

Mark 7:20-23 – Evil words flow from an evil heart; watch the inner life.

Galatians 5:22-23 – The Spirit’s fruit includes gentleness and self-control, enabling Job-like restraint.


Practical Takeaways

• Remember: the same mouth that praises God must never wish harm on those who harm us.

• Replace impulse with intercession—pray for enemies instead of cursing them.

• Speak blessing when wronged; it reflects Christ and disarms hostility.

• Regularly examine the heart; sinful speech is a symptom of deeper issues.

• Lean on the Spirit for self-control; Job’s restraint is attainable through His power.

How can we apply Job's example in Job 31:30 to modern conflicts?
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