Naomi's name change: feelings on God?
How does Naomi's name change reflect her feelings towards God's providence?

Setting the Scene

• A famine drove Elimelech, Naomi, and their two sons from Bethlehem to Moab (Ruth 1:1).

• Within a decade Naomi lost her husband and both sons (Ruth 1:3-5).

• She returns home with one Moabite daughter-in-law, Ruth, and no visible prospects.


Naomi’s Words: “Call Me Mara”

BSB (excerpt): “Do not call me Naomi… Call me Mara” (Ruth 1:20).

• “Naomi” means “pleasant” or “delightful.”

• “Mara” means “bitter.”

• By changing her own name, Naomi verbalizes an inner conviction: life once sweet has turned sour.

• She sees the Almighty’s hand behind it all: “…because the Almighty has dealt very bitterly with me” (v. 20, remainder summarized).


Name Meanings Carry Theological Weight

• In Scripture, names often signal destiny (Abram → Abraham, Sarai → Sarah, Jacob → Israel).

• Naomi’s self-renaming announces how she currently interprets God’s providence—He has exchanged her “pleasantness” for “bitterness.”

• She speaks honestly, yet not rebelliously; she still calls God “Shaddai” (the Almighty), acknowledging His sovereignty.


Wrestling with Providence

• Earlier she told her daughters-in-law, “the hand of the LORD has turned against me” (Ruth 1:13, excerpt).

• Her words echo Job: “The LORD gave and the LORD has taken away; blessed be the name of the LORD” (Job 1:21).

• Scripture acknowledges that God’s people can feel the sting of His mysterious purposes (Lamentations 3:38; Psalm 73). God’s rule is never in question, yet His ways can taste bitter in the moment.


God’s Hidden Hand Already at Work

Naomi cannot yet see that:

• Ruth’s loyalty (“Where you go I will go…”, Ruth 1:16) will preserve Naomi’s line.

• Boaz, a kinsman-redeemer, is waiting in Bethlehem (Ruth 2–4).

• Their son Obed will lead to David and ultimately to Christ (Ruth 4:17; Matthew 1:5-6,16).

• What feels like divine abandonment will prove divine orchestration—“God works all things together for the good of those who love Him” (Romans 8:28).


Lessons for Today

• Honest lament is not unbelief; God records Naomi’s complaint without rebuke.

• Temporary bitterness does not nullify future blessing—“You intended to harm me, but God intended it for good…” (Genesis 50:20).

• Our interpretation of providence is partial; God’s plan is complete.

• Encourage weary saints: the story is not finished. Pleasantness may yet spring from present bitterness.


From Mara Back to Naomi

• By Ruth 4:14–17 the women of Bethlehem bless Naomi: “The LORD has not left you without a redeemer.”

• Her arms cradle Obed; her emptiness becomes fullness.

• The name “Mara” fades from the narrative, and Scripture once again calls her Naomi—proof that God’s final chapter rewrites the hardest pages.

Why does Naomi ask to be called 'Mara' in Ruth 1:20?
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