Which other scriptures emphasize belonging and desire in a godly relationship? Song of Solomon 7:10 – The Touchstone of Mutual Belonging “I belong to my beloved, and his desire is for me.” Belonging Rooted in the First Marriage • Genesis 2:23-24 – “Bone of my bones… they will become one flesh.” • Matthew 19:6 – “So they are no longer two, but one flesh. Therefore what God has joined together, let man not separate.” These verses establish that covenant union means a man and woman now belong to one another under God. Desire Celebrated Within Covenant • Proverbs 5:18-19 – “May… the wife of your youth… satisfy you always; may you be captivated by her love forever.” • 1 Corinthians 7:3-5 – Mutual authority over one another’s bodies and intentional coming together “so that Satan will not tempt you.” Desire is presented as holy, passionate, and protective when expressed inside marriage. Mutual Ownership and Cherishing • Ephesians 5:25, 28, 31-32 – Husbands love as Christ loves; wives are one flesh with their husbands. • 1 Peter 3:7 – Husbands “live with your wives in an understanding way… as heirs with you of the gracious gift of life.” Love entails sacrificial giving, tender understanding, and a sense that each partner is a gift entrusted by God. God’s Covenant with His People – The Greater Pattern • Isaiah 62:4-5 – “As a bridegroom rejoices over his bride, so your God will rejoice over you.” • Hosea 2:19-20 – “I will betroth you to Me forever… in loving devotion and compassion.” • Zephaniah 3:17 – “He will rejoice over you with gladness… He will delight in you with singing.” • Jeremiah 31:3 – “I have loved you with an everlasting love; therefore I have drawn you with loving devotion.” The Lord’s unfailing commitment models the depth, exclusivity, and delight that human spouses are called to mirror. Royal Imagery of Desire • Psalm 45:11 – “and the king will desire your beauty; bow to him, for he is your lord.” This messianic wedding psalm pictures both regal honor and tender attraction, echoing Solomon’s language of delight. The Ultimate Marriage – Christ and His Church • Revelation 19:7 – “For the marriage of the Lamb has come, and His bride has made herself ready.” • John 17:24 – Jesus’ longing: “Father, I want those You have given Me to be with Me where I am.” Earthly marriage foreshadows the consummate union of Christ and believers—perfect belonging, eternal desire. Key Takeaways • Scripture consistently pairs belonging with holy desire; they rise and fall together. • Marriage is God-designed to reflect the self-giving love He shows His people. • Delight, exclusivity, and mutual devotion are not merely permissible—they are commanded and celebrated. |