How can we guard against disputes like in Luke 22:23 in our church? Setting the Scene in the Upper Room “Then they began to question among themselves which of them it might be who would do this thing.” (Luke 22:23) • The disciples shift their gaze from Jesus’ words to one another, breeding suspicion instead of trust. • A moment meant for worship and reflection turns into anxious comparison. The Seeds of Dispute • Self-protection: each disciple wants distance from possible guilt (Genesis 3:12). • Pride: soon after, they argue over “which of them was considered to be greatest” (Luke 22:24). • Fear of exposure: hidden sin or insecurity often fuels blame (Proverbs 28:13). Why Disputes Matter • They fracture the witness of the church (John 13:35). • They grieve the Holy Spirit (Ephesians 4:30-32). • They consume time and energy meant for gospel mission (Philippians 1:27). Biblical Safeguards • Pursue shared humility – “Do nothing out of selfish ambition or empty pride, but in humility consider others more important than yourselves.” (Philippians 2:3-4) • Guard the tongue – “Let no unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only what is helpful for building up.” (Ephesians 4:29) • Practice swift, private reconciliation – “If your brother sins against you, go and confront him privately.” (Matthew 18:15) • Agree on truth, not personalities – “I appeal to you… that you all agree, and that there be no divisions among you.” (1 Corinthians 1:10) • Keep watch over desires – “What causes conflicts and quarrels among you? Don’t they come from the passions at war within you?” (James 4:1) Practical Church Applications • Teach Scripture plainly and regularly—sound doctrine steadies hearts. • Model servant leadership—elders and ministry heads go first in confession and forgiveness. • Create clear pathways for conflict resolution—written steps based on Matthew 18. • Celebrate unity stories—share testimonies of restored relationships. • Pray together often—corporate prayer melts suspicion and knits hearts. • Keep meetings mission-focused—agenda items begin and end with gospel purpose. Remembering Our Example • Jesus knew Judas’ plot yet served him the bread (Luke 22:21). • He washed every disciple’s feet, including the betrayer’s (John 13:5). • He entrusted judgment to the Father, not to rumor or self-defense (1 Peter 2:23). Key Takeaways • Stay centered on Christ’s words, not on one another’s failings. • Walk in practiced humility, quick repentance, and ready forgiveness. • Protect the unity that proclaims the gospel by confronting disputes early and biblically. |
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