What does Proverbs 13:2 teach about the power of our words? The verse itself “From the fruit of his lips a man enjoys good things, but the desire of the faithless is violence.” (Proverbs 13:2) Immediate observations • “Fruit” pictures words as seeds that ripen into a harvest. • “Enjoys good things” links wholesome speech with tangible benefit. • “Desire of the faithless” contrasts a heart set on trouble; what is craved inside becomes harm outside. What the verse teaches about the power of words • Words are not empty; they produce outcomes just as surely as an orchard bears fruit. • Good words—truthful, gracious, restrained—create “good things”: favor, peace, strong relationships, even practical blessing. • Corrupt or unbelieving desires steer speech toward harm and chaos, ultimately bringing “violence” back on speaker and hearer alike. The sow-and-reap principle in Scripture • Proverbs 18:20-21: “From the fruit of his mouth a man’s belly is filled . . . Death and life are in the power of the tongue.” • Matthew 12:36-37: “For by your words you will be justified, and by your words you will be condemned.” • Galatians 6:7: “God is not to be mocked. For whatever a man sows, he will reap in return.” • James 3:5-6: the tongue, though small, “sets the course of one’s life on fire.” Practical takeaways 1. Cultivate the heart first—good words grow from a heart aligned with God (Luke 6:45). 2. Speak blessings: commend, encourage, thank. Expect a harvest of goodwill. 3. Refuse corrosive talk—gossip, flattery, profanity, cynicism—because such seed inevitably bears bitter fruit. 4. Remember hidden listeners: children, coworkers, unbelievers. Your words disciple them, for better or worse. 5. When you fail, repent quickly; uproot bad seed before it matures (1 John 1:9). Closing reflection Every sentence we utter plants something. Proverbs 13:2 reminds us we either feast on a crop of blessing or suffer a backlash of violence. Choose words that sow righteousness, and enjoy the good things God intends. |