How does Proverbs 16:23 guide us in speaking with wisdom and discernment? Setting the Verse in Context “The heart of the wise man instructs his mouth and adds learning to his lips.” (Proverbs 16:23) The Heart-Speech Connection • Wisdom starts within; speech merely reveals it (Luke 6:45). • A trained heart “instructs” the mouth, steering words before they escape. • Learning on the lips means words that educate, heal, and persuade (Proverbs 15:2). Traits of a Wise Heart • Fears the Lord, foundation of all wisdom (Proverbs 9:10). • Stores up God’s Word (Psalm 119:11). • Practices humility—quick to listen, slow to speak (James 1:19). • Moves in love that seeks another’s good (Ephesians 4:15). • Exercises Spirit-given self-control (Galatians 5:23). Practicing Discernment in Everyday Words 1. Check motive: speak to serve, not to shine (1 Corinthians 13:1). 2. Filter content: share only what is true and useful (Philippians 4:8). 3. Mind timing: “A word fitly spoken” carries weight (Proverbs 25:11). 4. Temper tone: gentle answers disarm anger (Proverbs 15:1). 5. Keep it concise: restraint signals wisdom (Proverbs 17:28). Checks Before We Speak • Truth check—align with Scripture and fact (Proverbs 12:19). • Edification check—build up, not tear down (Ephesians 4:29). • Peace check—heal rather than wound (Proverbs 12:18). • Witness check—reflect Christ’s character (Colossians 4:6). • Prayer check—offer words God can bless (Psalm 19:14). Fruits Promised to the Careful Speaker • Growing persuasiveness (Proverbs 16:21). • Reduced conflict (Proverbs 15:1). • Trustworthy friendships (Proverbs 11:13). • A public testimony that attracts others to the gospel (Matthew 5:16). • Personal joy and God’s approval (Proverbs 15:23). |
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