What does Proverbs 18:23 teach about humility in communication? Hearing the Text “Proverbs 18:23: ‘The poor man pleads for mercy, but the rich man answers harshly.’” Key Observations • A literal contrast unfolds: – “poor man” – the one conscious of need – “pleads for mercy” – gentle, humble appeal – “rich man” – the one possessing advantage – “answers harshly” – blunt, self-assured reply • Scripture presents the scene as fact, inviting reflection on attitudes revealed through speech. Humility in the Poor Man’s Voice • Dependent tone: he “pleads,” acknowledging his limitations. • Respectful approach: mercy is requested, not demanded. • Openness to receive: humility keeps conversation soft and receptive (cf. Psalm 34:18). Pride in the Rich Man’s Voice • Self-reliance: wealth tempts confidence that disregards others (cf. Proverbs 28:11). • Harsh response: words become weapons when the heart forgets its own need of grace (cf. Proverbs 12:18). • Dismissive posture: no space for listening, only for asserting. Lessons for Our Speech • Status must never dictate tone; every believer is a steward of words. • Neediness before God shapes gentleness toward people. • Harshness springs from pride; humility births mercy. • The measure of Christlike maturity often shows first in conversation (cf. Matthew 12:34). Practical Steps Toward Humble Communication • Remember the Maker: “Rich and poor have this in common: the LORD is the Maker of them all.” (Proverbs 22:2) • Choose gentleness: “A gentle answer turns away wrath.” (Proverbs 15:1) • Listen first: “Everyone should be quick to listen, slow to speak, slow to anger.” (James 1:19) • Clothe yourself in humility: “All of you, clothe yourselves with humility toward one another.” (1 Peter 5:5) • Speak grace-seasoned words: “Let your speech always be gracious, seasoned with salt.” (Colossians 4:6) Related Scriptural Echoes • Luke 18:13 – the tax collector’s humble plea, “God, be merciful to me, a sinner.” • James 2:1-4 – warning against favoritism that often surfaces in conversation. • Proverbs 16:19 – “Better to be lowly in spirit with the oppressed than to share plunder with the proud.” Living It Out • Adopt the poor man’s posture—honest about need, gentle in request. • Reject the rich man’s pride—refuse cutting remarks, even when holding advantage. • Let every interaction display the gospel’s transforming power: humble hearts speaking humble words. |
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